errr Totoros - I hate to break it to you but your £190 maternity grant will not cover everything you need for a baby!!! I just went to boots to stock up on nappies, wipes, lansinoh, breast pads, sudocrem etc etc and that alone cost £80. Obviously you can buy things cheaper than that but trust me, £180 isn't even going to come close. You shouldn't buy a second hand car seat, for example - a good quality new one will easily set you back £100 leaving you £80 for pram, cot, steriliser, clothes, nappies, changing equipment, bathing equipment, either breast pump or bottles, etc etc.