Help please! DD1 is 2.8, and we started potty training in May this year, with it all going great with wees, but no poos on loo, always in her pants until one day, doing a wee in the park loos, she had a major freak-out, screaming yelling, kicking me. Thought that she was so stressed about it that we'd be better off stopping completely for a bit, so we have until yesterday. In the interim, DD2 has been born, is now 4 months. DD1 now fine with her and we have a lovely calm household, so thought it was time to get back to the potty training! She is a very articulate child, speaking really well, generally very happy.We have had really good success with wees again so far, no accidents, but she didn't poo from Sunday until 1pm today, and again in her pants. I know that it is only day two, but I would appreciate any advice: we seem to be going down the same road again as before! She won't use a potty, she has a soft seat for the loo. We are having to use sweets as bribes, which is working for the wees, but just taken her to the loo just to try and she got very upset again, despite me only saying "I just want you to try and do one, it doesn't matter if you don't." Last wee at 1pm, writing this at 4pm. She has been upset and grumpy all day today, so is obviously feeling the pressure, despite both me and hubby being very calm about it all. What can we do to make it fun, and how do we get her to poo on the loo??????