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Night time potty training. Did you do this?

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LGBirmingham · 31/05/2025 07:30

If you night time trained your child rather than just waited for them to be dry please share your experiences with me.

Did you lift? What are people's opinions on this?

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LavenderBlue19 · 01/06/2025 06:39

I didn't bother lifting, it seemed to me that it would just encourage weeing without being fully awake.

My DS was consistently dry at night by 5.5. A few accidents since but maybe once a month, easily managed.

Didntask · 01/06/2025 08:45

LGBirmingham · 31/05/2025 17:35

@Slightyamusedandsilly this is the prevailing view on lifting currently and is on the eric website. And it does definitely make sense. But I think that's why you can end up waiting til they're 7 for them to be dry at night as 12 hours is a long time to not need a wee for. I guess you're basically waiting until they need a bit less sleep so they can last the night.

Which is totally fine if it doesn't bother you like for @Didntask . But being woken in the night the majority of nights for nearly 2 years is bothering me.

I agree with you that it probably is better to ignore much of the prevailing parenting narrative and do what works for your family though. Advice is changing all the time isn't it? I think I will try lifting. You're right people do different things all over the world.

Put a pull up on and you don't need to be woken up 🤷‍♀️

LGBirmingham · 01/06/2025 09:12

Didntask · 01/06/2025 08:45

Put a pull up on and you don't need to be woken up 🤷‍♀️

Unfortunately I get woken up if he's wearing a pull up! He wees, it wakes him, he shouts or comes to our bed. If it wasn't like this I wouldn't be here.

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K0OLA1D · 01/06/2025 09:24

LGBirmingham · 31/05/2025 11:07

He's 4 and a half now

My eldest wore pull ups at night until he was around 9. Its not something you can train. He's nearly 14 now.

LGBirmingham · 09/07/2025 22:16

Just wanted to update on this as it's so frustrating when you don't hear back from people on here. So we made great progress, after a bit of a set back. I tried lifting ds, not sure if it made a huge difference as the first night he had an accident but then had a couple of dry nights with the lifting. Maybe the lifting helped or maybe it was just him progressing and realising the nappies were no longer there. But then he got a UTI which obviously meant a few wet beds. I continued with the lifting and when that cleared he seemed to be pretty much dry at night. He will have an occasional accident maybe once a week, but often that is a small one and he finishes on the potty. I'm really happy with that progress and one accident a week is not a problem at all.

I'm still not sure if the lifting actually helps or not. We've been away on holiday this week and had to stick him in pull ups because there are no waterproof sheets where we are staying. As it seemed safe I decided not to lift as an experiment and I really don't think it's made any difference to the likelihood of an accident. He's had one wet pull up this week.

What has been noticeable without the lifting is he has shouted out in the night to be taken to the toilet more nights than maybe he would have done with a lift. But he is aware of the need to go so not having accidents in the middle of the night. He's probably sleeping longer without the lift but more likely to wake in the middle of the night to need a wee. Whereas with the lift he'll sleep through pretty consistently but is more likely to wake earlier in the morning needing the toilet and then be too awake to go back to sleep.

Anyway we're really pleased with progress in our household and in our case it does seem it's possible to train night time dryness for anyone wondering. It's also improved sleep which is great and DS's confidence. He was so proud the first few times he actually just got on the potty himself in the middle of the night. I think we should have just got rid of nappies when we trained in the daytime, as this is when his terrible sleep started, because he was aware of weeing in the night and it woke him up. That was definitely a sign to just get him out of nappies altogether which we ignored for too long.

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LGBirmingham · 09/07/2025 22:18

Also to clarify, I am lifting somewhere between 10 and 11. Not doing any waking up early in the morning or anything.

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