We started potty training DD1 in March at 2yr 9months. She got the basics pretty quickly (this was our 3rd attempt after two unsuccessful attempts last summer and in the autumn). Wee accidents are maybe a couple of times a week now but she poos in her pants at nursery every single day. Nursery have given up trying to save the pants and they just chuck them away now but i just dont know how to resolve it.
She rarely has accidents on a weekend, but i think that's because Dh or i are just constantly reminding her to sit on the potty. We've tried stickers, chocolate buttons and nothing is working. She had a week at home recently due to illness and no poop accidents, but it all started again back at nursery once she doesnt have someone constantly checking on her.
I know it has been tricky for her because since March her baby sister was born and she moved into the preschool room, which is much bigger than the toddler room. But all i get from her when i try to understand why is "i like doing poo poos in my pants" or "i want to wear a nappy like a baby". All the websites seem to focus on soiling relating to constipation and she definitely isnt. I assume its all related to her new sister but i thought it would have got better after nearly 3 months. I just want to cry every day. Is there something I'm missing?!