I don't know what to do anymore.
My toddler (2.5) has been completely out of nappies for 5 months now day and night. I would say she's maybe had a handful of pee accidents in the last 4 months max and she's doing amazing.
However, we just don't make any progress with number 2s. She does have pretty soft poo most of the time or the other end of the scale being quite constipated but she starts them all in the pants and then goes to the toilet but usually nothing else comes. She does sit for a while but even though she tries, nothing else happens. She change her, off she goes and half an hour later the next small bit started again and the cycle continues 3-4 times before it's all out. Every day.
We've handled it positively, encouraging her, buying new pants that were special and "didn't like poop in them", reward, distraction on the toilet to see if we just sit longer something else happens, offer her a pull-up happy (same thing happens and she wants to go to the loo). She seems to be stuck on having to poop while standing with an arched back holding on to the table but just can't seem to do it sitting down. I don't know what else to do. It's becoming quite stressful now and she seems to become conscious of it too (sometimes hiding to do it which does tell me she has some control).
Nursery are suggesting a reward chart but that's not helped so far either.
Any other ideas? I've run out!