Like the title says, really.
I think he's making progress overall but it's really up and down. Think initially hating having an accident and wanting to get changed ASAP to deciding, actually, he was perfectly happy being sat around in dirty clothes. From being dry for an hour or two at a time to suddenly not being dry for even 15 minutes. From asking us to take him to the toilet or going himself to refusing to go even when it was VERY clear he needed to.
At the moment, he seems to be back to not being comfortable in dirty clothes and wanting to be changed if he has an accident, taking himself to the toilet most of the time but not always getting there in time.
He's at nursery during the week and at home at the weekend. At home, he's probably averaging one accident a day - some days he's completely accident free, others he might have two accidents but the accidents are usually of the "near-miss-while-on-the-way-to-the-toilet" variety rather than the "didn't-even-flinch-while-making-a-puddle-in-the-living-room" kind.
Nursery is a different story. He probably averages around three accidents a day - very occasionally he might have a dry day (like, maybe once a fortnight) but it's equally not uncommon for him to have five accidents. I suspect what is happening is he's getting very engrossed with toys or playing with friends and decides he doesn't want to pause the game.
DH has had enough and wants to take him to see a doctor. I sympathise but a) am not sure they'll do very much because DS does seem to be making (unsteady and slow but still) progress and b) am not convinced there's anything medically wrong and we won't just be met with "sounds like a distraction issue - he'll grow out of it". But I don't know - I've never done this before perhaps there is something more useful they can do?
Any advice? TIA.