Our very bright and articulate 3 year old still isn't potty trained and I am close to having a breakdown about it.
She has a history of constipation and then withholding due to painful poos. She's on daily laxatives.
We have had a potty and all the books, toys etc since she was almost 2. We have tried taking nappies away twice but only last a couple of days because she just cries and cries hysterically for a nappy, and holds her urine until she's in a nappy.
I am sooo lost at what to do. I know there's the school of thinking which says "take the nappies away and don't look back" but is it really normal for them to be that upset by it all? She will sit on the potty and toilet now (after months of encouragement) but as soon as she needs a wee or poo, wants a nappy on. I worry that each attempt has just traumatised her, but then worry that not forcing her to do it is just making it worse. Help!
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rlew · 14/08/2023 15:48
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