She has been potty trained since just turned 2 with ease. We've had the odd setback but generally gotten on track. However, since she has started school she's been terrible. She is constantly having minor accidents and had a couple of full on wet accidents at school and she basically just doesn't seem to care. Today was a full on accident at school requiring a change of clothes. They obviously changed her but I told her as soon as I picked her up that we needed to go straight home and clean her up as otherwise her bum would get sore. We talked about why it happened and I'm constantly reminding her how important it is. However no sooner had we cleaned her up back home this pm she is dancing around the kitchen so I ask if she needs to go. She swears blind she doesn't but then wets herself again. I'm at a loss what to do. I can't win. If I give it attention then it's re-enforcing that it's a problem and a way she can get attention and it'll knock her confidence. However, how do I get through to her how unacceptable it is if she doesn't care enough herself? I try and set natural consequences for it eg earlier needing to come home instead of park but she doesn't seem to really care. I just don't know how to deal with it. It's driving me mad because if she makes a habit of it it'll start to become a problem at school. I'm trying not to be cross with her but at the end of the day it seems like this is 100% behavioural so it's so frustrating so long after I thought we'd nailed potty training. She's still not dry at night either but that's a minor issue really. Please help. Thanks