Hi. I am desperate for some advice please. So my daughter turned 4 a week ago, I have been trying to get her to wee on the potty/toilet for soo long now. So she insists on wearing pants apart from when she goes nursery, which is fine but she will literally hold her wee in ALL day and I’m talking 8-6 some days I know this can’t be good for her and I do try encouraging her to use the potty which she sits on but nothing happens so in the end we have to put a nappy on her. I’ve tried everything from charts to bribing and today I cut a hole in her nappy after her holding her wee in all day and made her sit on the potty, nothing happened so then I put a nappy on her made her sit down again and she told me she was weeing so I tried to rip the nappy off and then she started crying and stopped weeing because I did this. So I then got another nappy and cut a hole in it without her knowing and again made her sit down on the potty, this worked and she weed. However now she is saying when she needs a wee can I cut a hole on her nappy. It’s like she has stage fright when she tries to wee without a nappy. I’m honestly at my wits end and don’t know what else I can do. Her nursery have told me to probably contact the health visitor but I don’t see how that will help.