DS is 6 and still having frequent accidents. He's in pull ups at night, which isn't an issue in itself, but if, for example, he's in PJs before bed watching TV (or in the morning still has it on) he will pee in his pull up, often leaking onto the couch.
With his accidents, he is frequently told to go to the toilet, but we find he pretends to pee (flushing the toilet etc) or says he doesn't need, then 10 mins later he's had an accident. Unless someone goes with him and stands over him, he won't go (makes no difference if we are at home or elsewhere).
If he does have an accident, he's not bothered, he will sit there soaking wet until someone notices. He says he doesn't notice when he wets himself, or when he needs to go.
He's much better at school, I guess because he would be embarrassed if his classmates noticed (which makes me think he does know when he needs). Sticker charts and routine helps but after 3+ weeks of school holidays I feel we have gone backwards and it's been very frustrating!
Any advice please?!