My DS1 has been potty trained now since the beginning of June. He picked it up remarkably fast, with only a handful of accidents to date from day 2 onwards. He is only 26 months old so we've been impressed at how well he has coped. He will say "oh pee pee" when he needs to go and will willingly use the toilet at home or out and about.
He has recently returned to nursery after the 8 weeks of Summer and unfortunately he is not managing to go a day without at least three or four accidents. He's only there two days a week and these accidents only ever happen in nursery. He's not regressed one bit at home so it's a source of frustration for me. I'm sure he is just needing time to settle as he has moved into the 2-3 year old room so it's all change and clearly he needs time to adapt. The nursery girls have been taking him to the toilet regularly and he sits but does nothing. Ten mins later he will have an accident. Then another. Then another! It's at the stage where he's only managing one toilet trip successfully the whole day he is there. I just don't understand it! Why isn't he telling them he needs to go?! And if he's too shy, why isn't he trying to go to the toilet himself like he does at home? I'm maybe expecting too much of such a young boy but I'm not sure how I can help change the behaviour as he doesn't do this at home so I can't even reinforce their efforts to help. Twice now I've turned up and they've put him in pull ups as he has gone through all four spare pants changes.
Has anyone else had a similar experience with their little ones? Any tips or advice that you can share?! Is this just a phase?!!