DD (2.10) will not entertain the idea of the potty or toilet.
We've had a couple of tries at 'training' which basically consisted of her holding her wee for hours on end and getting really quite upset and anxious about it. So we went back to nappies (the second time we tried she woke in the morning practically begging for a nappy rather than knickers).
It seemed like she was keen to start - she chose a potty, toilet trainer seat, knickers, stickers for reward chart etc. on her own and seemed excited to be a 'big girl'.
We've offered all manner of bribes - including milkybar buttons which she will do practically anything for (except sit on the potty/toilet!!) and bought a particular book she really wanted and have said that we can read it if she'll sit on potty or toilet (doesn't have to wee/poo, just sit on it). But she is having none of it.
Just a bit worried as it seems to be getting worse. At first, she'd willingly sit on the potty/toilet, though she wouldn't actually release the wee (except for a few drops) and the discomfort caused by this had her in tears and she was inconsolable.
Then, she'd be happy enough with no nappy off but wouldn't sit on the potty/toilet regardless of what we offered her or how desperate she clearly was. She just flooded her nappy at nap time/overnight (but she did seem less upset about it).
Now she cries/screams if we suggest wearing knickers and no nappy. We're gently encouraging and the potty etc. is always available and in sight but she doesn't seem to be budging at all.
In hindsight I wished that we hadn't gone back to nappies the first time but believed the 'if they're ready, it will be easy/take 3 days' advice which is dished out regularly. Now it seems that she's more reluctant to try it than ever.
She's really quite particular and set in her ways - everything has it's place, stickler for routine, etc. so worried that the longer she is in nappies and 'afraid' of toilet/potty, the harder it will be to break the habit.
Has anyone had this or similar? Is it likely she'll just decide one day that she doesn't want nappies anymore or do we need to encourage it more? I don't want to stress her unnecessarily.
Sorry this was long. Thanks so much for any advice.
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officerjudyhopps · 07/08/2017 10:08
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