Ds was 3 in September and we recently started potty training for the second time . It's not going well and it's just causing tension and ds is definitely naughtier as a result . He will happily use a potty or stand up for a wee at the loo but he never ever ever tells us that he needs a wee or a poo and if he does wet or pooh himself , he will never tell us . He's so bloody lazy. We are having at least 3 accidents every day and that's only a low number because we take him to the loo every 1-2 hours. 90% of poos end up in his pants . I know I shouldn't compare him BUT all the other children in his room at nursery and his rugby group and his close friends are all toilet trained . He doesn't have additional needs and is a pretty average crazy 3 year old boy . I just want to cry . I don't feel it will ever end . Shall I stop and wait till he's really interested or keep going ?