Must admit have found toilet training the most frustrating part of parenthood so far and seeing the similar posts on this subject don't think I'm alone. My dd1 is 3.4 and was using toilet from very early on but has been properly dry in day since about 2.8yrs, never at night so still wearing pull ups to bed. Is quite resistant to going to toilet and taking pull up off first thing in the morning and as I have a baby too attend to aswell sometimes she spends about first hour and a half of the morning still in her pull up and not using toilet (#bad mommy moment I guess I should be more insistent on this but tend to be a bit zombyfied in mornings atm and don't fancy the battle). On and off she still is having accidents which can be weeks apart then will have 1 a day for a week which I find incredibly frustrating as it can often be 10mins after we have asked her/insisted that she may need to go. What I'm thinking is that because she's is sometimes still in the mindset of weeing in a nappynappy at night/early morning if she is tired/distracted is this confusing her and contributing to the accident s in the day? She is a fairly deep sleeper so would anyone recommend we try lifting before we go to bed to try to eliminate the nappies altogether??