Started potty training at 2.1 as she showed all the signs. Got it within 3 days, dry all day and pretty much at night (bone dry nappy 6 nights out of 7!) for 2 months. Never had a poo accident. Then for the next 3 months we had good days and bad. Novelty had worn off I think, she had other things she wanted to do more etc. Choc buttons or stickers would usually do the trick and get her back on track for a few days then would be accident day again.
Last 2 months have been awful. Rarely takes herself to potty or toilet until she has had a leak in her pants. Occasionally now has poo accidents in pants too. I can keep her dry by taking her to loo every 2 hours but she won't take any responsibility herself. She now wets her nappy in the morning rather tan wait until we get her up like she used too. Now fighting us over using the toilet etc. Rarely has a full accident, clearly has excellent bladder control, so if she has a leak then often can't let it out in potty so then has another leak a bit later so we have lots of accidents, and with poo we have just had 3 days where a little but came out in her pants and she withheld it so it took 4 small poo accidents, 3 days and a lot of prunes to clear her out.
Like her brother she likes rewards if she gets them but doesn't care if she misses out so she likes a Choc button when she's been taken to potty but doesn't care if she has a leak and misses out.
In a pattern now where she is at nursery 2 days a week - good first day (maybe one accident), terrible 2nd day, then it takes me 2-3 days to get her back to minimal accidents and by day 5 she might even go herself before a leak, but then we're back at nursery and the week cycle starts again.
Am on villa holiday. Have 10 days before she is due back in nursery. How can we re-potty train her? We had a torrid time with DS due to constipation and withholding which has only just been sorted, so we are a bit nervous about how to deal with this and don't trust ourselves to deal with issues so probably not creating the best vibe for this to succeed. So need a concrete plan we can stick to IYSWIM.