DD 2yrs 8months, we are about a month in and she mastered poos after a couple of weeks, she goes at the same time every day so it is easy to get her to sit on the toilet, she willingly goes when I suggest at that time and she often goes herself. She is capable of pulling up and down and wiping etc.
Wees are a different story. She will go first thing in the morning, she is dry all morning at daycare, dry for her nap and goes to the potty for them no problem and sometimes will just go herself. I collect her at 2 and from then on she refuses point blank to go to the toilet, and will have 2-3 accidents in the evening. She only sits on the toilet after an accident, then stays for ages waiting for wee to come. I'm at my wits end. I don't think she is deliberately weeing in her pants, yet she doesn't seem to care if she wees them. Her minders in daycare think she is doing great, I've mentioned to them about going back to nappies and they think I am mad!. When she gets home and just can't be bothered and it is a power struggle to get her to sit on the toilet. I don't know if I should abandon for now, or keep going ... any suggestions?
She is in the defiant stage (has been since turning 2!) and I should mention that after I put her to bed she always asks to go to the toilet (delay tactics) even though she has went before being put into bed,,, so I know she knows the process. Also when I tell her she is a big girl, she says 'no mommy I a baby' ...
Toilet training is sooooo hard !