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potty training on the go- yes even in clarks shoe shop

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tetherendtoo · 23/08/2012 09:49

big thumbs up to the staff in Clarks shoe shop, aylesbury. in the middle of getting ds X2 fitted for school shoes, 2yo dd asked for the potty. we'd only been at the training 3 days so it had to be done. i whipped out the full size potty (she hates the portable) and she did her stuff. despite glares i calmly wiped her bottom and wrapped the whole lot in kitchen roll and polly bag, used hand gel, gave her a huge hug and went back to the shoe fitting. the assistant didn't bat an eyelid, and dd sat proudly smiling at her achievement. i have seen lots of kids being held up at kerb sides, standing in bushes and what have you, when they've just had to go. as long as you are prepared and can do it hygenically, there's nothing wrong with potty training on the go-even if it is in tesco, asda, so don't jeapordise your cherub's confidence by worrying what other people think!

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Orchidskeepdying · 23/08/2012 09:51

Yuk....

kilmuir · 23/08/2012 09:52

Yuk

littleducks · 23/08/2012 09:53

FGS

All of what you did would have been great if preceeded with ...so i just took her to the toilet

Indith · 23/08/2012 09:54

Sorry but I have never done that. We used to arrive in town and go to the public loos. If they didn't go then we'd do one of our chores then back to the loos and so on. My children have had many accidents but they have always been in parks, on trains or something never shopping.

blackteaplease · 23/08/2012 09:55

Yuk. Why were you out shopping on day three of potty training? And why did you put your dc on a potty in the middle of the shop floor?

There is a reason why people were glaring, it's minging.

EarnestDullard · 23/08/2012 09:57

I'm potty training 2.5yo DD at the moment too, but I'm not sure I'd whip out her potty in the middle of a shop. Outside is not the same imo, I have no problems in a park or even in the street (discreetly) if necessary.

It's tricky though, when they're not yet quite at the stage where they can hold it very long, but putting them in nappies some of the time just causes confusion. I guess you do what you gotta do...

OLimpPickMeddles · 23/08/2012 09:58

How would you feel OP if you were eating in a restaurant and someone on the next table whipped out a full-size potty and let their DC "do their thing"?

Surely the most straightforward thing to do would be to ask to use the staff loo?

I bet the Clarks sales assistant is now gleefully telling all her friends "you'll never believe what happened at work today..."

hermionestranger · 23/08/2012 10:00

Op that is vile. The staff were most probably gobsmacked! You should not be out on day 3 and you should have found the nearest loo or asked the staff to use theirs. What you did is wrong and disgusting,

5madthings · 23/08/2012 10:07

please tell me she just had a wee?!

seriously did you not think to ask the assistant if they had a bathroom you could use?!

DowagersHump · 23/08/2012 10:12

Gosh, school holidays really are far too long for some people

Ciske · 23/08/2012 10:17

Potty training is teaching children to do their 'stuff' at the right time, in the right place. Pulling out the potty instantly as soon as they ask, regardless of where you are or what you are doing, kind of undoes that. If you're not teaching them to hold it up, you might as well leave them in nappies.

TheSkiingGardener · 23/08/2012 10:26

Thats disgusting.

Mono1 · 24/08/2012 14:41

@tetherendtoo Well Done you. I'd have done exactly the same thing. We are also carrying a full size potty around waiting for our little boys war cry of "potty potty" . yes he can hold it for a bit but not always long enough to get to a public toilet. Imagine if you'd posted a tale of having to pick up all your belongings and run through the mall with a toddler peeing on the floor all the way. Give your little girl a High Five for being so clever to ask for the potty in such unfamiliar surroundings.

MrsRobertDuvallHasRosacea · 24/08/2012 14:44

We've had a thread about this already this summer.

Please tell me this was not a poo.

NatashaBee · 24/08/2012 14:45

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amyboo · 24/08/2012 21:07

That's grim. We trained DS1 at 2.3 months recently, and he's been taught that if he needs a wee when we're out he goes to the toilet with Mummy or Daddy. That involves a public toilet, an in store toilet and once in a toy shop we asked if we could use the staff toilets, which was fine.

Seriously, but if I'd have been in the shop with you I'd have been pretty horrified too.

lljkk · 24/08/2012 21:11

Clarks must be really desperate for business, I guess.

Gosh that's weird, because I've been flamed on MN for saying before that I would never lug a potty around with me & more-over, I don't understand how anyone else would; imho Los aren't ready for toilet training at all if they can't (mostly) wait at least 2 minutes after realising they need to go, which is usually long enough to find a proper toilet or at least a discreet bush.

mrsmorgy · 25/08/2012 08:07

Somebody did this in the checkout queue behind us not long ago. Given that they were only about 10yds away from the loo's at the time, I was pretty gobsmacked. Each to their own I suppose Blush

mellen · 25/08/2012 08:14

Is this a reverse thing where actually you saw someone else doing this and thought it was horrible?
Seriously though, I dont think this is OK, if your child needs a toilet then look for one, if they have so little control that they cant manage that then I would question whether they are actually ready for toilet training.
Using a potty in a shop isn't dignified for the child or nice for anyone else.

fivegomadindorset · 25/08/2012 08:15

Just Grim

Fisharefriendsnotfood · 25/08/2012 08:19

I carried a potty for a week or two wen ds was scared of the toilet but we only used it in the public bathrooms. Why on earth wouldn't you have just asked to use the staff loo? Confused

picnicbasketcase · 25/08/2012 08:25

Should have taken her to a toilet. Part of training is a child gaining the ability to hold it for a couple of minutes and get to the loo rather than just peeing anywhere like babies do in nappies. Allowing her to still pee anywhere, but in a potty instead is not really the point.

lljkk · 25/08/2012 10:18

I wondered same thing, Mellen.

tetherendtoo · 30/08/2012 11:38

thought that an update on my original post is needed. my dd, after 3 weeks is completely day time toilet trained. i'm so glad that i just whipped out the potty whenever she needed it in the first few days. after the first week she was hanging on for the big girl toilet and now i don't have to remind her. job done. you do what you have to do.....

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Dropdeadfred · 30/08/2012 11:40

doing that in a shop is gross

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