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Is your child ready for potty training at nursery? Here's the place for all your toilet training questions.

So unsure what I'm doing, help please!

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Char86 · 28/02/2012 14:54

So decided yesterday to begin the epic task of potty training my two and a half year old daughter.
Stocked up on big girl pants, dettol, potty and big girl seat for the toilet.
She seems as if she may not be ready. I'm concerned that the concept of recognising the signs she needs to go to the toilet may be a bit beyond her at the moment. We've only had one tiny little wee in the potty so far (which was met with great applause and praise from me). All advice i'm getting at the moment is contradictory.
Discussing the issue with a colleague at work she was openly appalled that I'd left the house without nappies, and only what could be described as a suitcase of spare clothes and a travel potty stowed in the pushchair ready for impending accidents.
Should I be putting her in nappies still when we leave the house for the first couple of weeks? All advice welcomed!!!
Thanks C

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Ruthchan · 28/02/2012 18:38

Well done for taking the plunge.
One problem is that there are an infinite different number of ways to potty train and child and everyone you speak to will have advice that conflicts with what everyone else says.
Now that you've started, the best thing you can do is follow what seems right for yourself and your DD. I potty trained my two DCs in completely different ways because that was what seemed right for them.

Some people put their children in nappies when leaving the house, but others say that it's confusing for them and that they should stay out of nappies completely once they've started. You know your DD, so do what's best for her.

Many people, myself included, find it easiest not to leave the house much for the first week. A few days running around, possibly with no plants on, and easy access to a potty at all times can be a great way to start.
Most children take a few days to get the hang of it all, especially knowing when they need to go. It just takes time and patience.

BlackSwan · 29/02/2012 22:01

In practical terms it's hard to leave the house in the first week - but it can drive you nuts to stay indoors that long.

Your colleague doesn't sound like a particularly supportive character. I would be inclined to share a little less with her!

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