My DD is 2.11. She has been very keen to wear big girl pants since the summer. We made a couple of attempts then, but she didn't get it so within 48 hours when back to nappies. Santa brought pants in her stocking and since then we've been on the road to getting trained, very much at her request. She had been doing pretty well whilst off with both me and DP over the holidays. Fairly quickly started asking to go and only have accidents when tired or busy off playing with other children. We've tried to be pretty relaxed about the whole thing. However, we are a month in, she is still pooing in pants every other day, and today came home from nursery having had 3 accidents. She has managed to do poos in the toilet. Last week she seemed to have cracked staying dry for a couple of days. I am fed up with constantly washing. DD is determined she is not going back into nappies, I have threatened this if she can't get her act together. She is not worried about sitting on adult toilets, wipes herself, washes hands, and will do a wee on request, when we are leaving the house and so on. Please tell me this will all pass, and that I just need to relax, let her get on with it and she will get there.