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Secondary PPH

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TH31 · 23/05/2025 17:32

I had my little girl on the 11th May after my waters broke during my sleep at 4.30am - nothing happened for a while but we were kept in hospital because I had high blood pressure and a high temp and then things started ramping up very quickly. I’d asked for an epidural but unfortunately was already fully dilated by the time they came to do it and by 4.46pm with no pain relief - my girl arrived!

On Saturday, I had a post partum haemorrhage whilst visiting my brother in laws. I literally stood up and gushed blood and clots everywhere. I was blue lighted to hospital and admitted until Tuesday evening. They think I also had a uterine infection due to my CRP levels and infection markers so I was on IV antibiotics during my hospital stay and switched to oral for home.

Since being back home, I’m super anxious about it happening again or that I’m going to be so poorly I’ll have to be admitted again. I hated it in hospital, the nerves made feel so sick and hot. I’m overthinking the blood loss feeling in my pads, any cramps or twinges and my back is also quite sore at the moment. I’m trying to remember that I’m still only 11 days post giving birth and recovering from a PPH.

I have booked a counselling session for next week but I’m contemplating booking a doctors appointment as well. Any other advice or hearing others experiences I think will really help please!

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LemonLimeOrangeKiwi · 23/05/2025 17:38

So sorry you have been through such a traumatic experience. It must have been such a nasty shock for you.

My experience is different, in that I lost a baby and had a haemorrhage in the hospital that resulted in being whisked down the theatre, but for a good while the sight of blood (on TV or my own etc) caused me to have flashbacks.

You are going through something similar, and it takes a while to get through it, but you will get through it, I promise.

Have the hospital offered you a debriefing as to what happened? This might help you.

Congratulations on your new baby.

TH31 · 23/05/2025 18:20

LemonLimeOrangeKiwi · 23/05/2025 17:38

So sorry you have been through such a traumatic experience. It must have been such a nasty shock for you.

My experience is different, in that I lost a baby and had a haemorrhage in the hospital that resulted in being whisked down the theatre, but for a good while the sight of blood (on TV or my own etc) caused me to have flashbacks.

You are going through something similar, and it takes a while to get through it, but you will get through it, I promise.

Have the hospital offered you a debriefing as to what happened? This might help you.

Congratulations on your new baby.

@LemonLimeOrangeKiwi I’m so sorry to read about your experience, I can’t imagine how that will have felt for you. Thank you for sharing it with me.

I haven’t been offered a debriefing yet as I pretty much wanted to escape hospital as fast as I could. I did wonder if I should be questioning things further - shortly after I gave birth, my midwife went on her break and I was lay on the table for 2 hours waiting to be stitched up. My midwife then went home and I was left in the care of an another midwife who I showed a massive clot to before I went in the shower and they didn’t acknowledge it. I could be overthinking it but I was told several times to tell them if I’d passed any clots, could that have been a warning sign?

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