14 months post partum and if I think about childbirth and the early months I get so so angry.
Nothing awful happened particularly I just feel I was expected to be perfect and "natural" no matter what the impact on me or my relationship with my baby, and the medical establishment telling me this was happy to carry on demanding that we do whatever is most convenient to them. Over medicalised birth when it suits them but when it comes to labour suddenly they want you to switch to some sort of earth mother and forego proper pain relief.
And a thousand similar examples.