So I don’t get what it is but my husband is literally obsessed with our daughter in a healthy way Ofcourse but I’ve realised that he doesn’t talk to me about anything else. And she’s equally in awe of him. All day she’s saying dad dad where’s my dad. He works all over the place and he’s rarely at home and even when he’s home he’s playing the play station and I’m with her all day and night everyday. Since I’ve had both my kids I’ve not had a single day off or even an hr to myself. And that’s not even a joke. I’m with them 24/7.
When it comes to me he comes from work he’ll sit on the play station till 2 in the morning and the come see me when I’m too tired. Almost as though he’s waiting for me to sleep before he comes
I just don’t understand her fascination with her dad when he very rarely does anything with her maybe half n hr a day or when we go out once a week for a few hours he’ll look after her but that’s it.
I do absolutely everything for both of them. And she only ever comes to me if she needs something or she can’t sleep without me unless she’s absolutely exhausted. She does kiss me the most or cuddle me the most but honestly I feel like I’m not going something right.
My son who’s 8 months old is equally is aww of me and doesn’t really reach out for anyone but I don’t know I feel abit hurt if I’m honest