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Disliking everyone since having a baby

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newmama311 · 31/08/2023 01:53

Since having a baby I'm worried I'm becoming boring and uptight. I'm only 31, but I am suddenly fed up of everyone aside from my husband, baby, and close family. Sadly my in laws and most of my friends are all insufferable to me these days. Whether it's MIL doing something kind, caring but slightly different to instructions enraging me, or 1 catty comment from a girl putting me off wanting to be around the whole group and ruining a night completely. No one asked me about my baby and that has just put me off further: do I mean anything to these women?! When I am around the few friends I like I just have the urge to moan about the bitchy ones. I seem to be losing the joy in what used to be fun. I just want to be with my husband and baby and my mum and a very select few I can find joy in still. I used to be so fun and care free. What can I do to loosen up, as nights out come at quite a high cost (financial, hangover, planning time etc especially as most of my friends live 2+ hour drive away) for me to keep not enjoying myself. I feel like I'm too young to stop enjoying life and I am getting bored of no longer having fun!

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Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
moresleepthanks · 31/08/2023 01:57

You might just be moving into a new life phase.
That doesn't require hangovers and multi-travel.
That's okay, the traveling, drinking etc can come back in a while.
Stick with the friends who like and try to not let your mIl wind you up.

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