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What's my problem, am I depressed or something else advice please ?

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rs97x · 26/03/2022 17:18

Hi, I'm not really sure how to word this question but I'm struggling a lot with my mental health.

The thing is I don't know what my problem is, because some days I'm fine and the. others everything gets on top of me. I genuinely hate my life and everything about it - I can get so angry at the drop of a hate and so upset and irate.

With that being said, I love my children, I really do they are my whole world, Im a mum to two boys 2y and 7m they're angels, my two year old can be a handful at times but nothing extreme. I don't have much support, both my parents have passed away when I was younger, I'm 24 now.

I have my husbands mum who will look after my oldest sometimes which is great to bond with my youngest. My 2yo is also at nursery from 9-12 mon to Friday.

I have always struggled with anxiety and I sometimes take panic attacks when I can't deal with certain situations. I'm not on any medication although I was prescribed propranolol when I was younger. I honestly just feel like I'm rambling now sorry, but my point is I just don't feel okay when I have days where I'm upset and irate I can get bad, when I was younger I self harmed and attempted suicide a few times - that's what worries me so much, the way I can be so extremely distraught one day and completely fine as quick as half an hour/ couple hours, I do still get urges but usually just cry and hate myself. I don't know what to do, I don't know if it's anti depressants I need I don't know what it is, I'm scared incase I get them and I'm a zombie.

I'm really sorry if this makes no sense, I'm typing as my youngest naps and currently not feeling good, my husband is out with friends and I just feel so lonely and horrible. I have literally one friend and she's always busy so I've literally no one to talk to

Thank you for reading and tia for any advice

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Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
Suzi888 · 26/03/2022 18:30

Flowers I’m so sorry about your parents, not having their love, support and guidance (if they’re good parents) is so difficult. Do you think you may still be grieving for them?

I’m sorry I don’t have much experience with mental health if I say the wrong thing. I would go to your G.P and tell them how you feel. Tablets won’t turn you into a zombie, most of my friends are on anti depressants/anxiety meds. They just calm you down and help you deal with things better (so I’m told).

Does your DH have the children so that you can go out too? Do you have friends?

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