Am I being a terrible mum? I have PND and have really struggled recently. We were due to visit my in laws this weekend (weve seen them alot recently) but my husband has just gone himself with our 1yr old. We decided it would be good for me to have a day and an eve to myself to relax and recharge but God I feel like the worst mum ever. Surely I shouldn't want to have time away from her? I feel so guilty that I dont think I'll be able to actually relax at all!