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Bleeding when bowel movement

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bluerascal · 06/05/2021 19:20

Hi everyone, sorry if TMI but I'm three month postpartum and still having issues on the loo! I sometimes have bright red blood after a bowel movement and it feels like the movement is incomplete. I was told at 6 week check up I had a grade two cystocele/bladder prolapse. Could this affect bowel movements?! I had piles after giving birth which were quite bad but nothing seems to be there now. Should I go back for another check up?! I just feel fobbed off by doctors after the cystocele diagnosis no help or advice offered, just told it happens and to do pelvic floor exercises. Thanks for any help in advance.

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Youdontknowwhatyoureonabout · 06/05/2021 20:01

I have to say a woman’s physio telling me how to do do pelvic floor exercises properly solved the same problem I had.

As my DC was a late teen when it started it involved a drs trip, referral to colorectal, a 14 month wait for a colonoscopy then finally a telephone call from a physio. 4 weeks of doing PFE 3 x a day every day correctly- pretty much resolved the issue.

Maybe ask for a referral to a specialist women’s physio.

Youdontknowwhatyoureonabout · 06/05/2021 20:05

Full instructions from a women’s physio

“ Remember that the job of your pelvic floor is to #squeezeandlift? Fair enough, they do some other stuff too, like, resist forces from above and below, help with sexual function and what not, but, the thing to focus on here is your bumhole...

Now, think about a fart. Not any fart, this is The World's Worst Fart. This emission is so nasty that your neighbourhood, possibly the entire nation, will talk about for years to come. You are not going to humiliate yourself by letting this abomination out, you are going to squeeze and lift your bumhole tight shut and you are going to keep it tight shut for the rest of your life. Well, ok, for 10 seconds.

There's a couple of important things to remember - don't hold your breath at the same time and pay attention to where you feel the contraction, if you feel it in your butt or thighs you are cheating!

Here we go:

Take a deep breath in, sigh out.

As you sigh out, #squeezeandlift your bumhole. Hold it shut for a count of 10 seconds - but, keep breathing!

The 10 seconds is an aim, don't worry if you can only feel it work for 3 seconds. If you can contract your pelvic floor for 10 seconds there is a reduction in the urge to pee - so, it'll buy you more time if there is a queue for the loo which is longer than you anticipated. So, you are aiming to get to a hold of 10, if you start from a hold of a half a second, just keep going and see if it improves over time.

The long hold won't help if you if you laugh, cough or sneeze - because that needs a short, quick contraction of the muscles to support the neck of your bladder.

Imagine this scenario - you can feel a nasty fart, oh no!

#squeezeandlift your bumhole quick!

Oh, it's ok, it's gone away, so, relax your bumhole.

Oh no, it's back! That's going to be horrible! Squeeze your bumhole!
Oh, no, it's gone away, relax your bumhole...

Do ten in a row and make sure you properly relax the muscles between each one.

You have to do those two exercises three times a day until you are dry, and then once a day, every day until you are dry.

Hold for a count of 10, then 10 quick flicks and do one of those each x3/day -

Which gives us - 10, 10, 3

"We won't pee with a 10, 10, 3"

See? Easy.

Well, it's not, actually, no. It's easy to do once you get the hang of it, but, remembering to do it is a challenge!”
www.gussetgrippers.co.uk/experience

My physio recommended downloading the squeezy app to set reminders for 3 x a day.
5 second holds with 2 second breaks. Life changing.
www.squeezyapp.com/

FTEngineerM · 06/05/2021 20:15

No advice because there’s already great advice above but I also had agony like that PP. I don’t think it was piles though it was a fissure and oh my god it felt like labour at one point.

We really do go through the mill, if things don’t improve go back to the GP. They can send you for further investigations.

bluerascal · 06/05/2021 20:59

@Youdontknowwhatyoureonabout @FTEngineerM thanks both. @Youdontknowwhatyoureonabout did you have a prolapse too then? Did the excercises just help with symptoms or actually put the prolapse back into place if that's possible? I'm worried about the effect of a second baby might have on it as thinking in the future about another baby!

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Youdontknowwhatyoureonabout · 07/05/2021 07:01

No, sorry, I mean the same issue re bowel movement. Bleeding so much bright red blood that the toilet water was so red you couldn’t see the bottom & incomplete bowel movements.

bluerascal · 07/05/2021 07:43

@Youdontknowwhatyoureonabout Ahh ok, so what actually was it then that was causing it do you know?

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Youdontknowwhatyoureonabout · 07/05/2021 16:07

Muscle weakness. The CR surgeon did ask if my DC was big (he was) but, as it’s resolved by strengthening my PFM, he was obviously right.

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