When I had my first baby in 2018 I breast fed him. There were no problems with latch. Positioning was sometimes hard as I struggled to sit in a chair due to injuring my coccyx or the muscles around it during birth (on back with legs in stirrups due to problems). So I often fed laying on my side. He fed well.
I was very engorged when my milk came in and had an over supply. I was repeatedly told this would settle over a few weeks but it didn’t. I got mastitis twice and fed through it. I then got it a third time and also developed a large breast abscess that had to be surgically drained 10 times. Every time it was drained it filled up with milk again that then went septic. I was advised not to pump or express during this time due to the over supply.
I was then advised to stop breast feeding because otherwise the abscess wouldn’t heal. I was v upset but I accepted this as the whole situation was getting me down immensely and making me quite ill. I just wanted to get better and enjoy my baby.
However I still don’t really understand what went wrong and why this happened. Was I given any bad advice? I spoke with the breast feeding midwifes, breast feeding counsellors on a phone line etc I was advised some different positions to try also which didn’t help. I was told it wouldn’t be an abscess as they are extremely rare. Even the GP didn’t spot it on my first appointment, actually had to send photos to a friend who is a doctor who then called the local breast unit and managed to get me a scan!
I’m due another baby in 2 weeks. Hoping to breast feed for longer this time and with more success. Obviously a bit trepidatious due to this happening last time and just looking for ideas of what I did wrong last time to cause all this drama.