Hi not sure if I'm posting in the right category but gonna give it a go. Had an argument with my partner last night and thought I'd sleep on it to see if I could get any clarity.. but no!
Basically he was bouncing the baby on an excersice ball to soothe it and I made a comment something like 'I wonder if you can bounce a baby too much'. My intention was never to undermine or challenge him its genuine concern. Anyway it didn't go down well and he Basically told be I'm worrying way too much and it's getting to him and I need to sort it our because he can't face the next 18 years like this. I know I worry. But don't all new mums,? When does worry become a problem and if its that bad shouldn't my partner try and be supportive? I certainly don't say shit like that to him when he has a bad day suffering from ( ,well managed) depression. I can make an effort to keep my worries to myself...it doesn't feel great though. I don't know if I'm in the wrong or not and would appreciate a third party's opinion!