Hi,
I was diagnosed with PND a few weeks ago, I have an 8 month old. I love him to bits but there are days where I feel like a dark cloud is over me and I become withdrawn, irritable and very down. My husband is supportive but I don't think he fully understands. He's just asked me "What can I do because we can't keep going on like this" and I didn't know the answer. He keeps asking me for decisions about our baby "who's going to put him down for his first nap?", "What time shall we put him down", etc and things like that and I'm fed up of always being the one that decides on our child's routine. He's now in a huff and won't speak to me because I'm being down. I've just bawled my eyes out in the shower. I feel so alone. We had a great marriage before and now it just feels like it's crumbling away. He's being really clingy for affection too. I'm not in the mood for sex whatsoever but a hug will turn into him touching my boob and I get so annoyed. He knows I'm not in the mood for sex, I just don't think he can help himself. He's a lovely husband, I just don't think he understands what I'm going through right now. I'm currently doing CBT to help x