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Abortion - need help

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vb123x · 29/01/2021 11:11

Hi guys , please please no hate . So Iv just found out I'm pregnant. I have a 2yr old and 7m old , I have no idea how far along I am . I was using contraception & condoms so I have no idea how this has happened and I'm very disappointed.

My mental health is really
Bad at the minute after having my 2nd , I'm trying to loose weight and was wondering why I wasn't and turned out it's because I'm pregnant. I'm stuck on what to do 😩 , I'm not ready for another baby , my mental health just can't do it , and tbh I want to focus on my two kids ! I feel like crap atm and just feel like there's no point getting out of bed anymore ,

I'm booked in for couple weeks times but for me this is not good enough I could be a lot further then what they think 🤔 has anyone gone through this 😞

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FTEngineerM · 29/01/2021 11:17

I am also pregnant and have a 7m old, even though we planned it it’s still petrifying seeing that positive and realising how hard it will be.

Sorry you’re not feeling good, do you want another baby? If not I would push for an appointment at an abortion clinic/bpas near you ASAP, getting an appointment doesn’t meant you have to go through with it but at least you’ll have the option. Waiting weeks may take that away from you if you don’t know how far along you are.
If you do then take time coming to terms with it, you will be able to manage 3, lots do. Do you have people IrL to talk to?
❤️

FTEngineerM · 29/01/2021 11:19

Sorry, just reread it and you don’t so ignore the last part.

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