Baby blues

[JesseandNancy]

Hi, I'm just after a bit of advice and to know if anyone is going through/has been through the same as me.

My daughter is 3 weeks old and I'm still suffering quite badly from up and down emotions. During the day I feel ok, and relatively positive about things, but as soon as it hits about 5pm, and then when my partner gets home, I feel really down and can't stop crying. There isn't anything specific that I'm down about, but I just feel like the breastfeeding issues, lack of sleep and general huge lifestyle change is hard to bare and I feel like it will never end.

Is anyone else still suffering with hormonal issues 3 weeks into motherhood? Thanks!!

Sorry, I can’t help but bumping for you.

It does end though, I promise. Life will quickly become ‘normal’ again

I'm a few weeks ahead of you but I felt exactly the same. People told me to take it day by day but honestly, go hour by hour. If you feel positive for a few hours and it all seems to fall apart the next, don't view it as a terrible wasted day, just look ahead to the next positive period.

I was/still am really struggling to come to terms with being a mom and all the responsibilities and fear but I've been on antidepressants for 3 weeks now for post natal anxiety with OCD tendencies and I'm beginning to see the light at the end of the tunnel. It might be worth just speaking to your HV or midwife, they can explain what is normal and when you might need more support. Hopefully just chatting to someone will take a load off.

Hang in there mama, we got this 💪🏻

I think I cried every day for about the first 10 weeks! Hormones are total bastards and having a new baby is totally overwhelming and exhausting. Have a good chat with your partner about how youre feeling and what you need support wise, whether its a cup of tea, a bath or a few hours baby free! It does and will get better, but please make sure those around you know what youre going through and how they can help you. If at any time you feel this could be more than baby blues, go and see your GP.

Oh bless you! I’m only 12 days in but I feel totally the same way, even down to the evening mind shift. Just want you to know you’re not alone!

Thank you! I'm still the same at 4 weeks but now am getting over anxious about coronavirus!! Let's hope in a few months we will all feel a bit better!!!

Isn’t it horrible! No one is coming to visit, no baby groups open, I’m scared my baby won’t be socialised with other kids at this rate

Well let's hope it isn't for too long. I'm sure there will be plenty of time for socialising. They don't know a lot different at this age! X