I had my baby 14 weeks ago, and had a really traumatic birth. I ended up with a 4th degree tear and was in theatre for 4 hours getting sewn back together. I was checked out at my 8 week appt and told everything was healing well but I dont feel normal. I've got special moisturiser which I apply to the scar daily but I can feel the scar tissue which feels hard. Is this normal? I tried doing the deed with my partner this week, but it was so painful and I bled afterwards so now worrying that I've done some damage. Its left me feeling really down, and worry that I'll never be normal again ðŸ˜. Has anyone else been in this situation? Does it get any better? Xx