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Summer2019NewMummy · 24/08/2019 06:18

I'm 5 weeks postpartum and sex is painful but not where I'd expected it to be. Sorry if too much information but I'm trying to work out if this is a normal part of the healing process or if something is wrong. I did mention it to my gp, while i was there about something else but didn't really get an answer. I've got my 6 week check this week, so I will be bringing it up then. But I'd like to hear if others have experienced the same issue.
So.. stopped bleeding over 2 weeks ago. Had sex 3 times since. Had some internal stitches (which have healed and dissolved/come away now). These were inside back wall 2 inches in (no pain in that area). Sorry if TMI. No pain on entering, no painful areas that can be reached by fingers. But it feels like the depth of my vagina is shorter as deep penetration hurts. Before any says anything OH hasn't pressured me, is very considerate and loving, we've made sure lots of foreplay & been very gentle.
Any ideas if this is normal healing or what this could be?

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IDontDrinkTea · 24/08/2019 06:22

It sounds like he’s hitting your cervix. It’s quite common for it to be lower temporarily after having a baby. It will go back to normal, you just need to give it some time

squatsandcrunches · 24/08/2019 06:28

Yes, sounds really normal to me. I had the 'easiest' vaginal birth with DC1 really - no tearing; born with waters in tact, and sex was painful at 5 weeks. GP and HV both advised waiting until after 6 week check. By week 7 or so everything was back to normal.

Summer2019NewMummy · 24/08/2019 10:04

Thank you ladies. Glad to hear it's normal. Was starting to wonder if something was wrong and was worrying it would always be like this!

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