Hello all, reaching out for advice from other mums and looking for people who have had / have similar situations.
I had my first baby 6 days ago. We had an incredibly quick birth (23mins) and he was born with a Cephalohematoma. He fed in hospital and after all the usual checks I was discharged 17 hours after birth. From when we got home he would suckle for a little while but never long. He would get really upset and tire himself out with crying before ever really feeding well.
On day three we went to our midwife as he was so lethargic and not latching. They did the checks and he was extremely jaundice (SBR test shows 330) and had lost 12.5% of birth weight. Needless to say we were re-admitted to the hospital. By the time all the tests were re-done in hospital his SBR test had gone over 400 and he was put under 3 lights. Whilst in hospital they wanted me to continue breast feeding every 3 hours and "top up" with at least 50ml. I started to express and would get enough to top him up without having to give any formula. Whilst in hospital I could never get him to latch alone - we always had help and even with help he never went on happily and would come off several times. My breasts are very large but my nipples never extend very far so it's really hard to get a good non painful latch.
After 30 hours of photo-therapy and 3 hourly feeds his SBR level had come down to around 230 and he had gone to a 7.9% birth weight loss. We were discharged from hospital and told to feed him when he wanted and no need to "top up".
Whilst in hospital I got on really well with expressing so I got a home machine and continued to express at home after feeds so I had some milk in reserve incase he stopped latching again. For two days he would cluster feed between 12midnight and 3am - latching for 5mins at a time and then taking a break of 15 / 20mins before feeding again for 5mins max.
The midwife came to the house day 5 and though we were feeling happier he was getting lethargic again - not waking for feeds and refusing to latch. She took more bloods off and it showed his SBR level had increased but was still below treatment level.
Today is day 6 and we went to the midwife again today and his SBR has increased slightly again. They said he needs to be getting 70ml every 3 hours and it felt like they were suggesting using formula for this (although noone actually said it!) When I got home from the midwife we gave him what I had expressed in the morning and I expressed 150ml more; which was a great headstart for the feeds he needs over the next 24 hrs. I have been feeding him the expressed milk every 3 hours and expressing about 70ml every 4 hours. I haven't put him back to the breast since this morning as he's so sleepy I can't get him to latch.
What I want advice on is as follows:
1, is this similar to your experience with a Jaundice baby? How did it end up for you - did your baby need multiple photo-therapy sessions?
2, can you exclusively express feed a baby?
3, can you express and then top up with formula as a long term plan?
4, would anyone suggest just calling it a day with the breast and change to formula - expressing a couple of times a day untill supply dries up?
5, anyone have any tips for larger breasted women with small / inverted nipples who want to breastfeed?
Sorry for the long first post but I want to be able to talk to other people who have / are experiencing a jaundice baby. I want him to get better and I am willing to do whatever it takes regardless of how tiresome / painful / expensive it might be.