Hope this is posted in correct place. I also don't mean at all to sound shallow; I am grateful for my children.
I have had two c sections. Last one was 7weeks ago. My stomach muscles have already seperated from pregnancy number 1 so are pretty wrecked. I have always been overweight but I am currently 2 and a half stone lighter than before I was pregnant somehow. I am a very outgoing bubbly woman in her mid 20s. My body however is making me want to slice my own overhang off. Just talking about it now I could cry. I have a very low and big overhang. I have spent the past 5 years since after pregnancy number 1, sucking my stomach in as if I don't you it hangs over my crotch. You can see it through all my clothes, wearing jeans is awful because it just looks almost like a behind and despite having lost a lot of weight, I can't find clothes to fit correctly because the overhang is so big. I still have more weight I want to lose but only maybe a stone. I know that this overhang won't go and will actually just be exacerbated by losing weight as it will hang even more. I have Googled suitable clothing and for other people's stories but people just refer to theirs as a 'pooch'. Mine is so disgusting, it is more than a 'pooch'. I feel really insecure about my husband seeing me naked or touching me. I'm just horrified really. I had an overhang with the first but this is just awful. I don't know why I am posting really except perhaps for a gee up and some support or advice. I just really hate myself at the moment. If I only had the baby, I would happily spend all days in bed.