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Gill79 · 09/08/2008 16:39

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sarahmikeharryandrosie · 02/09/2008 15:36

miss nat- sorry henly is poorly, cant help u i am afriad- seey doc if you are worried

Been to see eye doc- she seems to think Rosies eye is ok, her one eyelid sits lower then the other but she has perfect eye coordination and her vision is fine, just told me to keep an eye on it(no pun intended)

I was not particulary worried about it but wanted to make sure its noted in her records etc!!!!

Its certainly quiet in here where is everyone???

sarahmikeharryandrosie · 02/09/2008 15:40

sorry my post was a mess was trying to feed DD as well as type!!!

alkar · 02/09/2008 19:21

Glad rosies eye is Ok sarah.

Did you take henley to the doctor Missnatalie?

Still no letter from paed about DS eyes. A friend came over today with her 8 week old we put them next to each other for a photo and Daniel pulled his hair and made him cry

missnatalie · 02/09/2008 19:29

Hello

Didnt take Henley to the Dr's. Spoke to HV who said its probably to do with his cold. It hasnt happened today. Just going to keep an eye on him and see how he goes tonight.

Hes really cranky at the moment. Hes on the floor surrounded by his toys and winging cos he dont know which one to play with. Im going to give him some supper and then bath, bottle and bed. Today has been such a long day.

alkar · 02/09/2008 19:40

Days like that are really hard missnatalie, DS had a bad morning and didn't stop crying in the cinema he was tired but fighting it. He's been OK this afternoon since he's had a sleep.

CountTo10 · 02/09/2008 20:27

God tues night tv is sooo crap and bloomin dp decided not to go to football tonight so I can't splurge on my beverley hills 92010 dvd boxset - thems are the breaks!!!

How is everyone? Sooo glad that ds1 is back at preschool tomorrow. Don't know what's got into him since the weekend but he's been a nightmare. Today he just kept attacking ds2 and in the end I had to send him to his room till bed and withold bananas and custard. He had such a tantrum that he ended up crying himself to sleep. I feel awful cause I remember doing that when I was little but I just didn;t know what else to do. He's been in and out of the naughty corner today and just taking not a blind bit of notice. I'm hoping that it might shock him a bit and what with going back to ps the routine might do him a bit of good. Sigh, why do we have kids again???

Had an awful experience sat night. Went out with some ladies I know into a town near us for a few drinks and it ended in such drama. We went to this bar and I didn't feel that comfortable in there cause everyone was a lot younger than us and we really stood out. One of the women we were with gets very animated when drunk, nicely, but does end up attracting attenntion and I said we need to go soon as she's gonna attract the wrong sort. Spoke to soon as next thing, she's gone flying across the dance floor. Evidently some girl had said to her come on grandma and my friend gave her a bit of a look and next thing it all kicked off. Anyway I got a kick to the face trying to help my friend out after I got knocked down (luckily not hard) but this girl went out and told the police she'd been bottled. So we got thrown out and then my friend got arrested for ABH!!!!! Luckily after a lot of talking and club owner vouching for us etc, the police dearrested her (especially when said girl made a miraculous recovery and went off laughing with her mates) and we got to go home. It was all so bizarre. I've never been involved in that kind of situation before whilst out - well not since I was about 16. Needless to say I won't be going to that place anymore!! I just kept thinking god this can't be right, we've all got kids at home, surely we're not involved in this right now!!!

Miss nat - hope ds is a lot better now. When they're really full of cold they can get allsorts coming out which isn't nice. How are his ears cause sometimes they can get blocked and it might be that some of its coming out of his nose. Gross I know but all the nose ear throat etc its all connected which is why a lot of babies under a year get snot coming out of their eyes!! Takes a while for all the plumbing to sort itself out.

Right so this has got to be the longest post in the world....apologies

sarahmikeharryandrosie · 02/09/2008 21:41

oh conut what a night, there is nothing worse than trouble makers

(i did giggle though)

off to bed very sleepy catch up tomorrow ladies xxx

missnatalie · 02/09/2008 23:33

CountTo10 - ur night out sounds like mine used to. Sadly ive been told that im too old to be clubing now. Im 25 . It was a 17 yr old who said it.

I think that it may have something to do with Henley's ears. I took him to the Dr whilst we were away in Devon as he had LOADS of watery ear wax coming out at night. And when i think of it, the stuff thats coming out of his nose is a similar colour to what was in his ear.

For some reason i cant add anymore pics to my profile. Heres a link to the ones on my facebook www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=68514&l=9c47a&id=695280049 . They were taken last bank holiday whilst we were away in devon. Hope the link works.

Nite, nite everyone

sarahmikeharryandrosie · 03/09/2008 08:31

Your pics are lovely Miss nat, i have addded u as a friend too!!!

gingermumi · 03/09/2008 13:44

missnat dd2 had loads of nose bleeds when she was little when she had colds, it's because their tubes are so little they cant cope with the pressure. i was told not to worry about it, hope this helps.

sally, i think crying it out might be the only way we have done it with ds for the last week and he slept through last night. it isn't as bad as you expect it to be and it only takes a short tim to work (IME).

sarah glad lo's eye ok

wow count, what a night! am impressed you can be de-arrested! thats one to tell the grandchildren!

work ok but haven't gone in today, dd2 and now ds have bug that i had. dd2 has had it worse and has only stopped being sick today (since saturday). i felt mean leavinbg her but there wasn't much i could do, i knew work wouldn't wear me stayin home because she's 17. couldnt leave ds though, who started with it this morning (perhaps thats why he slept through?'cos he wasn't well). not sure what work think but i will have to go in later when dh gets home. ds does't seem anywhere near as bad as dd2, hopefully it will be a 24 hour thing for him like it was for me.

apologies for typing but he is rolling about on my lap at the mo!

haven't heard from bean and egg in ages.

Egg · 03/09/2008 16:07

Hello wanted to pop on and say hi. Got back last Friday but never managed to post here when I was on briefly on Sunday or Monday and then had my sis and kids staying.

All ok here. Just wanted to say to missnat that DD has had quite a few minor nosebleeds (she used to get them when she cried a lot when she had a cold) and the HV and paediatrician both said not to worry as it was most likely a tiny blood vessel close to the surface. She has stopped getting them now touch wood.

Oh, and proud parent alert - DS2 can say "mama" now . Only when he is gearing up to cry mind you. And not directed at me specifically. And its more like "maaaaaa maaaaaaa" but hey .

Will catch up properly tomorrow as DS1 at nursery.

gingermumi · 03/09/2008 16:41

welcome back egg

sallyforth · 03/09/2008 20:25

Hello everyone again!

DH not home yet. what time does everyone else's DH get home?

DS has decided he likes solids. He is putting on weight faster now - LOs aren't "supposed" to do this I gather but every single mum I know in RL has told me they had the same when weaning - that their LO went up a centile line (DS has gone up from 2nd c. to midway bewtween 2nd and 9th)

omy - I gather its fine for LOs to sleep on their tummy if they are able to roll back over easily - because otherwise you'd be up all night turning them over! Also thanks for letting us know about your back to work experiences as am v nervous about my own return to work. Am impressed that your LO is eating lots of food - what sort of stuff is she eating and how much does she manage?

missnat - hope Henleys cold is getting better, its awful when they are poorly.

Count - what a terrible thing to happen! did the police take a DNA sample from your friend? they routinely do for all ABH arrests I gather. Also OT but snot out of eyes EEEEEEWWWWWW!

missnat - ah, watery earwax all coming out at once means the eardrum is inflamed or irritated.

ginger - think I am too soft to let LO cry it out by myself, and DH never home in time to provide moral support!! (see above)

egg - wow!!! VERY impressed at talking baby!!!

omy · 03/09/2008 21:07

Hi Sally - you remind me of what i was like with DD1 - I don't think I put her down for a year! i am much tougher on DD3! One thing that you might try - give LO a toy to play with in his cot and chat a bit to him when you put him in the cot - as if to say 'this is play time' not 'bed time' - DD3 often falls asleep in the middle of playing with her toy - it is so cute!

Food wise - am fuming at DH who gave Leila her dinner tonight while I was out at yoga - he didn't listen as I was explaining that I had made lentils for her without onions or stock cube - and he gave her our lentils with the onions and stock cube - (she ate loads apparently!) So she has eaten loads of salt, onions and monosodium glutamate - GREAT!!

Apart from tonight's fiasco she usually eats those fab things from waitrose called 'ella's kitchen' - purees of fruit and veg all mixed up. They are yummy! They have a spout so she sucks it straight out of the packet! brilliant. Also I give her tastes of what ever we are having - she loves fish, humous, oatcakes (I chew bits up for her) lentils!! and bread. She does freak me out by gagging on the bread but she loves it so much. One thing she absolutely refuses to eat is the baby rice and spelt baby porridge i bought when i started weaning. Don't blame her!

Hope Henley's cold is much better!

Egg - Leila says maaa maaa too! (when she is miserable!) and baa baa, gaa gaa and very occasionally daa daa!!

Has anyone heard that wearing an amber necklace helps with teething? Sounds like superstition to me!

omy · 03/09/2008 21:10

Ginger - bug sounds horrible - i hope you all feel better soon!

tyaca · 04/09/2008 11:39

hiya -- arghhh! dh been back at work for three days and i'm already going a bit nuts. i'm so used to having a partner in slouching around.... he'll have been out three nights this week too (two of them work-related) and i confess i'm getting lonely already and missing london.

have signed up for a load of classes for me and dd but they dont all start til next week or week after. was meant to be taking dd to baby clinic round here for first time but just goolged location and its impossible without a car best part of an hour walk or longer if public transport. so i now i am feeling like i have this loooooong day and night stretching on front of me and am having a low-annd-pointless moment and feel a bit teary. know it will all be a lot better when days are filled and know some people round here.

breaking news: i read a book! first since dd was born. whatsmore it was a proper book with a recommendation by philip pullman on the front . got carried away and bought another yesterday, but turns out i have already read it

omy - are onions bad for babies?? dh is not happy that i have let dd have things with garlic in them. but she too seems to love hummos. i have been letting her suck it off pitta bread which she seems to like. she starts rocking with crazed anticipation at mashed banana too.

sally - your dh always seems to get in late! when i was working it was alwasys me in at 8pm or 9pm and dh back by 6pm. glad your ds enjoying his nosh

talking baby egg! i am jealous. i have secret fantasies of teaching dd the odd bit of french to drop in at random moments ... saying that, i also have fantasies of getting her to say "ooooh, fancy!" when sat at the dining table at my uber posh brothers . hope you ahd a nice time away and with family. i havent been on a lot here recently but when i've scanned i did wonder where you'd got to. was having crazed moments wondering whether this'd all get a bit morningglory and after meeting me you;d never return to the thread [slightly psycho emotcion]

wow count - what a night! ABH?????? i am so impressed that you are in a club in the first place. lol at your dh sntaching away the chance of a beverley hills boxset night - i have always sworn that we would never get a second telly but at times like that i would start to think it wouldnt be a good idea.

ginger - hope the gingerfamily are all feeling a bit better today!

right. am going to try to motivate myself to housework my way out of my low slump. wish me luck....

missnatalie · 04/09/2008 13:05

Hello

Im taking Henley to the docs today. He has a HUGE nose bleed in the night and then another one just before we got up. His cot and my bed are covered in blood. I phoned the HV back and she said its best to take him to the docs just to be on the safe side.

My baby (well hes 2) nephew started pre-school on Tuesday. He looks so cute in his uniform. Just spoken to him on the phone and this is what he said "nat nat. ive got some girlfriends. and i kissed them 2 times". Bless him, hes so cute .

Not doing much today. Cant go out because the weather is crap!! Plus ive got 4 omnibus episodes of Holly Oaks to watch .

Hope everyone is ok

Egg · 04/09/2008 13:24

Gosh Tyaca I would never stay away because of you! You are lovely and I can say that for sure now I have met you . Btw, am afraid that DD has stolen Esther's penguin from DS2. She loves it though, she takes it out in the pushchair with her and chews the feet all the time.

Sounds like you are having a bit of a lonely time at the mo. You will be fine once you start the classes you have signed up to and meet some people. When we moved here last summer I didn't know anyone but because DS1 was older than your DD is now I was at the swings twice a day and so met lots of "casual aquaintances" there! Am now seeing a couple of the mums I met at the swings a year ago more regularly and meeting for coffees etc sometimes. When DS1 was younger though we made quite a few friends through swimming and Monkey Music [sobs - I miss Monkey Music]. Am sad also that I can't do those things any more with DS1 and can't do them at all with DTs as can't take everyone, and don't fancy even trying to go to any music type classes with two babies .

Loving your plans of getting your DD to say some great frightfully posh sentences. DS1 has come out with some cracking things in the past.

Omy it's funny, if my DH did what yours did and fed the babies the salty MSG laden food I would have gone mental, yet when it is not my own DH involved I think "ah well, once doesn't matter" . I give my poor DH a hard time whenever he doesn't follow my strict instructions poor bloke, and then wonder why he doesn't try to help out more with the babies. Seriously though, DD will of course be ok. Onions not a prob but the salt and MSG not exactly fab!

Am impressed with her speech! Was over the moon when DS2 said mama as DS1 never said anything along those lines (baba gaga etc) til he was nearly a year (well behind all his peers in our ante natal group...). Now he talks ten to the dozen as though he has been talking for about 20 years mind you.

We also use Ella's Kitchen, although am favouring Plum Baby at the mo as they have Stage 2 foods with meat in so even easier for lazy me. I fed DS1, DTs and I all the same meal the other day, Salmon, Mash and Cauliflower. My god I was rushing round trying to get everyone's to the right consistency (DS1 eats the same as me but I have to mash his cauliflower into the potato, whereas I wanted it whole, and DTs had whole lot stuck through the grinder).

They all loved it though. Mine was cold by the time I had finished shovelling into DTs. I went straight back to pots for them the next day .

Sally - my DH gets home at 6:40pm three days a week, and 7:40pm two days a week. Never later except maybe one day in every 20 if he has to work 15 mins late so he misses his train. Maybe one day in 6 months he ends up stuck at work v late due to a problem and is home at say 10pm. I always get the children into bed earlier when he is not here, but it is far nicer having him here to help as I always feel sad for DS1 who gets fed up waiting for DTs to give in and drink their milk so I can get them to bed (the buggers).

Count I am at the reception you and your friends got whilst out. I just looked at your profile (for some reason I have never seen your pics before, your boys are soooooooo gorgeous), anyway, you look very young yourself although maybe some of your friends are older, but still I am outraged on your behalf. I used to go out drinking quite a lot (before having kids) with a workmate who was in her 50s. We had such a great time and nobody ever said a thing. Glad your friend was not charged!

Omy DS2 nearly always sleeps on his tummy. He can roll back over easily. DD sometimes ends up on her tummy too but can't really roll back over in her sleeping bag. She is fine though and just turns her head to the side. I think it is only a prob when they are too young to lift their heads so can end up face down and suffocate themselves .

Sarah glad DD's eye is ok. My DD has one cheek bigger than the other . Slight quirks just make them prettier .

Ginger hope everyone is over the bug now. Also hope you get another baby soon! As I have I think said many a time, my mum was an "older" mum and she is the best mum ever (was 41 when I was born). And don't forget you only look about 30 anyway!

Sorry. This is getting quite long. Am reading through the thread and trying to reply to as much as i can .

Count have not even congratulated you! Very exciting. One of my MN friends on another thread got married recently, it was very lovely and romantic (not that I was there, I mean reading all about it). No advice on the thrush thing, but definitely get it checked out if you haven't already.

Am going to post this now. Congratulations to anyone still awake!

Egg · 04/09/2008 13:26

Missnat missed your last post as mine took so long to type!

Poor Henley, I would be horrified to walk in and see any of my babies covered in blood. Good luck at the docs I hope he is ok.

I love Hollyoaks but never get to see it regularly. Did Mandy have another baby? Or did she adopt? I never saw it when she returned to the programme and have no idea what is going on! And what on earth is going on with Jack? Why is he pretending to be DEAD?

Egg · 04/09/2008 15:41

Have I scared everyone off with my mammoth post?

gingermumi · 04/09/2008 16:02

wow egg what a post! everyone getting better here now, thankfully ds didn't get it as bad as dd2.

sarahmikeharryandrosie · 04/09/2008 17:32

Hi all- Goodness EGG i have missed you, xxxx

off to work will pop in later,

How was docs appt missnat??

missnatalie · 04/09/2008 19:21

Evening all

Dr's appt went well. He said that its tiny capilaries in his nose that are causing the bleeding. Once his cold has gone it should fix itself. Hes given him some antibiotics for his cold too . Im a bit concerned about this because i was always under the impression that antib's wouldnt shift a cold as it was caused by a virus. He checked his chest and that was clear, so whys he given him the antib's?

I asked him for some more nurofen (the doc in devon gave him this and it works a treat with his teething pain) but he wouldnt because apparently it can cause bleeding in young babies. Has anyone else heard of this? If its true why the hell did the doc in devon prescribe it . Our doc said that the nurofen may have caused the nose bleeds to be worse than what you ususally get with a cold.

Egg - Mandy does have another baby. Ella shes called but not sure if shes addopted. Jack is pretenting to be dead as he got into massive debt. Him and his son realised that he was worth more dead than alive (life insurance). When they found a dead body in the pub car park they decided to say that it was Jack. Can only happen in Holly Oaks eh?

missnatalie · 04/09/2008 19:21

Evening all

Dr's appt went well. He said that its tiny capilaries in his nose that are causing the bleeding. Once his cold has gone it should fix itself. Hes given him some antibiotics for his cold too . Im a bit concerned about this because i was always under the impression that antib's wouldnt shift a cold as it was caused by a virus. He checked his chest and that was clear, so whys he given him the antib's?

I asked him for some more nurofen (the doc in devon gave him this and it works a treat with his teething pain) but he wouldnt because apparently it can cause bleeding in young babies. Has anyone else heard of this? If its true why the hell did the doc in devon prescribe it . Our doc said that the nurofen may have caused the nose bleeds to be worse than what you ususally get with a cold.

Egg - Mandy does have another baby. Ella shes called but not sure if shes addopted. Jack is pretenting to be dead as he got into massive debt. Him and his son realised that he was worth more dead than alive (life insurance). When they found a dead body in the pub car park they decided to say that it was Jack. Can only happen in Holly Oaks eh?

missnatalie · 04/09/2008 19:21

Evening all

Dr's appt went well. He said that its tiny capilaries in his nose that are causing the bleeding. Once his cold has gone it should fix itself. Hes given him some antibiotics for his cold too . Im a bit concerned about this because i was always under the impression that antib's wouldnt shift a cold as it was caused by a virus. He checked his chest and that was clear, so whys he given him the antib's?

I asked him for some more nurofen (the doc in devon gave him this and it works a treat with his teething pain) but he wouldnt because apparently it can cause bleeding in young babies. Has anyone else heard of this? If its true why the hell did the doc in devon prescribe it . Our doc said that the nurofen may have caused the nose bleeds to be worse than what you ususally get with a cold.

Egg - Mandy does have another baby. Ella shes called but not sure if shes addopted. Jack is pretenting to be dead as he got into massive debt. Him and his son realised that he was worth more dead than alive (life insurance). When they found a dead body in the pub car park they decided to say that it was Jack. Can only happen in Holly Oaks eh?

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