Hello, I am wanting to have a baby and I am 40 just about to be 41. My boyfriend keeps chopping and changing his mind which I have now taken to realise is he does not want children really. I am studying at the moment for a 2 year course but would like to get pregnant in my last year as I am extremely worried about getting too old. Then I would have to work for a year to get any maternity pay anyway so I would be looking at being around 44 when I have a child. I am thinking it’s best to do it now then work on a job after. I feel like it’s all mess. Should I do it? As my partner might not stick around being that really he does not want a child and it would not be his. I have waited and let life go past me a lot of things and so not want to do this with a child.
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Lozz001 · 05/02/2024 10:13
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