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August 2006 - one year on!

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sarahlou1uk · 15/08/2007 18:31

new thread for all us 2006 girls!

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hoppybird · 11/06/2008 18:34

We're going for 3 weeks in August.

What makes our house embarrassment worse is the fact that all of ds' friends live in lovely houses, but their parents tend to be a bit older, so they're more established in their homes. (that's what I like to tell myself) Me working from home doesn't help either, as the housework gets neglected. It really does get very messy, especially as there's nowhere to put anything yet, together with the boxes of floor that have been with us since last year. A tradesman let us down, and we haven't been able to plan time to do it, or find another reliable tradesman.

Still, one day, it will be lovely.

whoopsididitagain · 13/06/2008 18:34

PINK WELL DONE YOU CRAZY GIRL LOOOOOOL
im so happy for you wow!!!!!!!!!

PinkTulips · 13/06/2008 21:18

well, the only persons house in our village i've been in so far was like a rubbish tip.... i mean really disgusting... normally i'm not adverse to pushing junk out of my way to sit down but when there's rotting food in the junk i do have to raise my eyebrows a little. the whole experiance has completely resolved my house embarressment for the time being!

am going to someone elses house for a birthday party tomorrow so am bound to come back from seeing their beautifully decorated, fully furnished interiors feeling an even more intense form of house humiliation but for tonight i'm content

hey booby, thanks babe

Nbg · 14/06/2008 08:15

I knew when you left a message on my fake tan thread that you'd be pregnant

Congratulations Pinky.
I'm really pleased for you.

As much moaning and all the faces I pulled at having another, its flipping brilliant and I wouldnt change it at all.
Having 2 boys is ace and the age gap between ds1 and 2 is lovely. Ellis absolutely loves him to pieces and is very protective of him.

And although when Ellis was born, dd wasnt all that bothered about him. I dont think she was at that age but when ds2 came along she was totally different.
I reckon your dd will be allover this baby like a rash

PinkTulips · 14/06/2008 17:20

she's already really excited about the idea of baby..... especially the fact that this one is due not long after her birthday.

she'll be 4 and ds will be 2.5 so pretty good age gaps (hopefully anyway!)

we always wanted 3 and tbh, if we'd left it any longer and the kids had gotton any older there's no way i would have wanted to go back to square one so it was now or never.

am starting to panic now though..... so far i've had a hand to grab each child but what do i do with the third?!

Nbg · 14/06/2008 20:10

Its amazing how you manage to balance all 3 children on your knee.
I can do that and drink a cuppa at the same time now!

Now thats what I call multi tasking, lol.

As lovely as it is though, its bloody lovely knowing dh has had the snip too

PinkTulips · 14/06/2008 21:15

yep..... dp has suddenly made an about turn on the whole snip issue and will be running out the door for one once this baby arrives

3 is enough for us too, and being young there's far too many years before menopause when a little accident could pop along, last thing i need is another baby when dd is 20!

am very of your balancing act, ds's ass is so big i can barely manage him on my lap never mind the 2 together...... and they fight [sigh]

Nbg · 15/06/2008 14:38

lol

Well Ellis is quite scrawny really. Still in 9-12m clothes and Ethan has caught up to him already. There was me thinking that Ethan could have Ellis' hand me downs.
Fat chance.

Madison and Ellis fight a bit too. M has far more time for Ethan than Ellis.
I dare bet your dd will be the same.

Oh its all good
Apart from the lack of sleep which I cannot do with.

Right now I could happily crawl into bed and not be woke up until M start school in September

micku5 · 15/06/2008 21:59

Hiya..... Just popping in for a quick hello! How is everyone?

Talia's been keeping me busy hence the lack of mumsnet in the past 18 months (can't believe it been that long!!)

She's been in and out of hospital about 18-20 times over the last 18 months with various breathing related problems and has had pnuemonia 3 times but she is a little fighter and is getting better. All the staff at the local hopsital know her and has free rein at the ward lol

Apart from that she's been a little angel at times and a monster at others, terrible twos have come early. She has speech delay which probably adds to her frustration but if she doesn't get what she wants or gets told off, the bottom lip starts to tremble and stamps her foot.

I swear she has 6th sense... first time i get to post a message and she has woken up. Here's a couple of recent pics of Talia and her sister.

Take care Micku xx

PinkTulips · 15/06/2008 23:16

hey micku.... good to see you again. sorry to hear poor talia's had such a rough 18 months, she really does sound like a tough litle cookie though. i hope things keep getting better for her.

nbg.... sarah wears caleb's hand me down pants i've already been asked if they're twins a few times as they're so close in size

PinkTulips · 15/06/2008 23:20

micku... just looked at those pics.

the girls are gorgeous you'd never know talia's been unwell to look at her!

micku5 · 16/06/2008 11:44

Thanks... Congrats on your news Pink!

Nbg · 16/06/2008 13:17

Awww Micku your girls are beautiful.
I agree with Pinky. You would never know she was unwell looking at those photos.
She certainly looks like a happy little thing.

Can I just ask you about the speech delay.
Apart from the obvious, how do you know she is delayed iyswim?
Does she say anything at all?

The only reason I ask is that I have my concerns with Ellis and have spoke to my HV a couple of times about it now.
They have told me to hang on until his 2yr check up.
He can just about say all gone but no one other than dh and I would know he's saying it and Car which he's been saying for months now and he calls everything a car.
I thought at one point he was starting to say more but he really isnt.

micku5 · 17/06/2008 10:57

Hiya there are known development delays with Di George including speech which is why I pushed for an assessment with SALT.

At the first meeting Talia was age appropriate for understanding things ie can you get me that toy or where's the ball, but speech wise she was approx 9 months behind. Having said that she has got a few words not all are clear. She says 'hello, all gone, no more, mummy and her version of thank you. Oh and Peppa (from peppa pig)

I have to admit that I do compare her to dd1 who was talking by 18-20 months but other parents with kids Talia's age tell me that theirs don't say more then 2 or 3 words.

If you and your dh are concerned ask again or see your gp and ask them if they can do a referral.

Nbg · 18/06/2008 10:06

That is interesting.

Its hard isnt it when you've had a child before because you instantly think back to what they did but you can never fully remember what age they were when they did certain things.

I'm going to hang on until the 2 year check.
The HV said that they will look for them to be saying 20 words and if they can say a couple of words together.
I know for a fact that even in the space between now and August he wont be saying that.

PinkTulips · 18/06/2008 10:33

nbg.... caleb was extremely slow with his speech in comparison to sarah as well and i was very worried but a couple of months ago he just suddenly started talking in sentances, now i actually think he's better than she was a the same age!

he seemed to learn in a completely differant way to her, whereas she learned tonnes of words and then started to string them together, he seemed to listen to our speech and absorb as much as he could before simply starting to talk.

i also had a cousin who was late talking, he was almost 3 before he said anything at all that was recognisable as speech to anyone besides his mother but once he started he flew along and at 4 he was no differant from other kids in terms of speech.

try not to panic too much, i think 2 is still within normal range for starting to speak.

girls are supposed to be quicker anyway so the boys are at a disadvantage having older sisters they're being compared to by us!

olivo · 25/06/2008 09:44

wow at LOs talking in sentences - that's amazing. my dd chatters away but never more than two or three words together; my dh often wonders how i understand what she means but we communicate well!! have sent dd off to nursery with a sticker to show her keyworker as she asked this morning t ogo on the loo and she did a poo - i was so proud of her! she's been following the bigger girls to the loo at nursery so we've just bought her one of those seat things and she loves it.
everything else is good, dd is so entertaining at the moment but exhausting! I'm looking forward to spending lots of time with ehr in the summer holidays, only 3 weeks to go.
can i ask which toys your dcs are into at the moment? people are starting to ask about birthday presents and i'm not sure what to suggest. i did actually wonder about asking for contributions towards a bed from our parents etc as we'd like to get dd one with a pull out bed underneath, but obviously, she'd prfer toys! she is only jusy getting into some that she was given ages ago so maybe i should think ahead? any ideas welcome!!

snowboo · 25/06/2008 21:52

Pinky!!!! Congrats hunny. So pleased for you!!!!

Well i've just come out of hospital after having an operation to remove a tumour in the lower part of the bowel. Found out a few weeks ago, the doctors were positive when we saw them, said they were hoping to cut it out, join the two ends of bowel back together and that might be it. I get the results of the biopsy in two weeks and find out if i need chemo. Very scary and it was bloody hard leaving my boys. Hoped to come home on Sat but due to a nurse leaving me sitting in my own faeces (had catheter and epidural in, couldn't move!) i got a UTI. Started antb's then they caused me to catch c.diff. Change of ab's, got oral thrush from all the meds but they finally sent me home yesterday, 8 days after i went in. So i'm a little bit sore, have my period which doesn't help when your abdo musles want to sleep but soooooo glad to be in my own environment. Doctor said the op was a success and they removed all they had to so fingers crossed. Its a rollercoaster ride and i want to get off! But as a treat for Austs birthday we will be going for a Day With Thomas in Hampshire somewhere. No sympathy or sad feelings please, just wanted to get it all off my chest. Have a few friends who are giving me the pity look and i am positive so they really don't help!!!! I have said to dh (who has been a star) this is going to make us stronger and make our lives richer, nothing should be taken for granted. I cried on the way home as i could smell the fresh air. Something so simple but i missed it.
So, thats what i've been doing for the last few weeks, but i'm still .

Hello everyone else, Micku, your girls look beautiful and the others are right, dd2 looks a very happy healthy little girl! Well done. x

BigHotMama · 29/06/2008 18:59

Snowboo, shocked at your news? I really admire your attitude hun as a lot of people in your situation would become very negative but you have exactly the right outlook to get through this and yes you will become even stronger coming through this. Hope you feel better soon . Your lucky they caught it in time as for others its too late.

Micku5, the girls are just beautiful. They look like great friends too. Sorry you been through a lot with Talia must have been a tough year for you all.

Just come back from hols and it was lovely spending quality time as a family. Jackson met a little boy called Myles who was same age, and they hugged each other every time they saw one another, it melted our hearts.

Starting my full time job tomorrow so going to be hard week, but break up in 3 weeks so can have all summer off wahey!

Lol at NBG bouncing all 3 on her knee, just cant imagine it ha!

Jackson ate mashed potato today and even tried kebab meat on holiday which made me rather proud as he hardly eats anything. Hoping this fussy phase is slowly going

Hoppy/Pink, at least you got your own pad. We still renting a 2 bed apartment and with summer here I feel guilty that ds cant go outside in a garden to play.

Olivo, funny you saying that somebody asked me yesterday what they should get him for birthday and we said NO TOYS! lol. Rather have the money and put it in his savings account or buy stuff that he needs at the time.

Hope everyone is ok x

hoppybird · 30/06/2008 15:01

Gosh Snowboo! That's a story and a half! But it goes to show how strong you are, being able to fight off those hospital infections on top of your surgery - c. diff can lay people out for weeks. I'm curious though - how did you know something was wrong? I do hope your biopsy results come back ok. Fingers crossed!

Nice to see you back again, Micku, and as everyone else has said, your girls look lovely, and you can't tell Talia's been ill.

Olivo - well done on your LO using the conveniences! Are you potty training her full on now? I've not started yet. Might see what she's like when we get back from holiday in September, then she can get lots of practice with no interruptions and constant changes of scene. No ideas for specific presents, I'm afraid - dd plays with ds' cars, scribbles with crayons, loves playing with water, likes megablocks - actually you can never have too many megablocks - you can make huge buildings, chairs and motorbikes to sit on etc.

NBG - forgive me if this is a bit obvious and you've already done it, but have you had Ellis' hearing checked? Could that be an issue with the lack of words?

BHM - glad you had a nice holiday, it's lovely when they make a little friend, isn't it. I really feel for you with not having a garden - it won't harm your LO in the long run, I'm sure he gets out plenty. We had a garden when we lived in the maisonette, but it was separate from the house and you had to walk all the way down the drive to get to it. Might as well have been the park really - very inconvenient - I couldn't just let ds out to play. It hasn't affected him adversley though, we were there for 7 years, so don't worry! You won't be in your flat forever!

olivo · 30/06/2008 19:36

blimey, snow, what a time you've had. glad to hear you so positive though.
micku, sorry to hear talia has had such a rough time too - they're lovely, by the way
bhm - glad you had such a good holiday. we have just less than 3 weeks work left and i'm counting the days, i hate work at the moment but no other jobs about as yet, will keep on looking and waiting. will probably sit tight and think about ttc to be fair!
well, dd did another poo on the loo today - i love the way she claps as she knows i'll tell her she's clever! not really potty training her as such but they sit her on the loo after nappy changes at nursery as her big girl friends are training! might try during the summer holidays or probably leave it to nursery after the holidays!

BigHotMama · 01/07/2008 16:44

Bless your dd for doing poo on the loo Olivo
We're thinking of training during 6 wk hols too, I'm not looking forward to it though. What kind of potty have you got?

olivo · 01/07/2008 20:45

i bought her just a boots cheapie potty and we decorated it with peppa pig stickers but to be honest, she prefers the loo. i bought a hideously expensive winnie the pooh seat but the better one is a woolworths ladybird one; the WTP is too slippy, although it does have handles.
dd came back from nursery today sporting a gold star, as she had done her first ever wee in the loo. she was SO proud of herself and nursery were great in praising her. they have been sitting her on the loo after every nappy change, which is what I will try and do. i give her a sticker every time she does something and i bought her 3 potty type stories to encourage her.
are you being a full time TA, BHM?

am very excited, am off to london on saturday, for the day, and going to see lee mead in joseph! i have a secret crush....

BigHotMama · 03/07/2008 21:22

Think I'll check out that seat
And well done your dd for doing 1st wee.

Yes have just got new contract as a full time LSA with a girl in year 4 who has emotional and behavioural diffulculties due to negative home environment. She needs support in class as can become disruptive and tends to run out of school when upset, Its going to be hard job me thinks

snowboo · 07/07/2008 19:38

I'm confused. says at the top page 10 of 11, can't get the 11th page!!!! Has my comp gone mad or is it me????

Saw consultant today, op went well, they took out quite a few lymph nodes and it hadn't spread, see the oncologist as he might want me to have chemo but he might not. Not as simple as i'd hoped but consultant seemed happy with me.

Hope everyone is good

xx