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September 2014 - Into the new year!

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RedToothBrush · 29/12/2014 20:16

Shiny New Thread for a Shiny New Year.

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CumbrianExile · 21/01/2015 14:01

Zan, that sounds soo cute.

Ah baby proofing...I think that will involve packing all our stuff away alltogher as we live in such a small house haha. But good tip on the cable ties, must get more of them before A becomes mobile.

holls2000 · 21/01/2015 14:14

we are looking to move. I hope to god we do or baby proofing is going to be godawful.

holls2000 · 21/01/2015 14:14

ps. I think sophie may be speechless for some time. I say tjis is a blessing in disguise aa fairly sure that squeak.would have driven me to drink fairly soon.

cookielove · 21/01/2015 15:25

holls we are moving in March fx he isn't moving till then as our flat is to small and too full of crap for him to grab!

TeamEponine · 21/01/2015 15:44

Holls, so pleased you're not taking a step back from here. I'd miss your posts!

Acorn, she is on neocate. I smells awful, but she seems to tolerate it.

Good news is that work have approved me returning to work part time for a year before going back to full time. I'm so relieved, even if it will be tough financially.

holls2000 · 21/01/2015 16:33

Thanks team :-)

B getting back to normal though poo still a bit grim and he is still a bit grouchy...haven't needed to calpol today so :-) I'm doing 6 feeds at the mo to catch up a bit!

We have been making purée. Carrot done and bns and sweet pot in oven at the moment. I have enjoyed it. Not sure if runny enough but can always add water when defrosted if needs be! Do they start having water then too? And does milk then not go in bottle but a cup?

Does anyone else sometimes forget to eat?!?

FATEdestiny · 21/01/2015 16:58

Hi Holls

Glad to hear you have been busying yourself. They recommend you mix purees with milk if you need to thin them down - or at least they used to recommend this when I last prepared purees.

Yes, they can start having squash water, fruit juice and milk to 'drink' and it's best to establish this in a cup. That doesn't mean you have to get rid of bottles though. Certainly at first baby will still be having milk feeds through the day. You can move to a cup for them all if you want to. Don't worry if baby likes the comfort of a bottle though, it's fine for now.

Buying sippy cups:

I wish someone had explained the different types to me when I first started, so here goes.

There are free flow cups and no leak cups. Free flow cups are easier for baby to drink from - just turn upside down and drink drips out. Problem is baby will soon learn to 'sprinkle' and unless you want to spend half your time saying "no, don't do that!" they are not useful long term

No leak cups are more difficult to work though - child often has to either suck hard or bite down to 'open' the flow hole. Useful longer term to stop mess from sprinkling and cups being knocked over, but harder for little ones to work.

Another option is the straw lidded cup. These have an in-built straw so child drinks with beaker upright. They require a suck to get liquid to go up the straw but less difficult than no leak ones. Often leak less because of one-way valve in straw.

You can also get handles that convert your bottle into a beaker, but still with a teat. I don't think this is recommended for drinks other than milk or water though.

I know when we first started I ended up with a cupboard full of cups that we didn't like. So don't be like us and just think "we need to get a cup for the baby" and get the pretty one, or the brand name, or first one you see. Think through how the cup works and if it suits your child.

cookielove · 21/01/2015 16:59

holls thank you for the reminder I need to buy some sweet potato to puree! He had some apple porridge today.

They can have tap water from 6 months which I would put in a cup, of course you can you sterilised water if you want!

I am gonna keep Elijah on bottles till he is at least a year I think that is what moSt people do.

Honeybear30 · 21/01/2015 17:07

Ha ha Sophie's first bath lost her squeak here to. Sadly it returned. It really is an awful noise isn't it?

Baby proofing....hmmm haven't considered this yet. The highchair arrived today, I'll get my head round that first I think.

KitKat1985 · 21/01/2015 17:22

Gosh lots of posts!

Holls I'm pleased you're not going anywhere. I enjoy reading your posts.

Am dreading baby-proofing. We just have so much stuff so it's all cluttering up the lounge (previously in the 'spare room' but that room is now Jessica's bedroom). Need a massive de-junk I think but never seem to find the time. Jessica only really naps for like 20-30 mins at a time in the day, so I just put some laundry on or washing up and then she's up again. Sigh. xxx

lilone1234 · 21/01/2015 17:26

So much to think of! I've made a list of the things I'm going to need for Molly over the next few months. It is long. Really need to start reading around weaning soon, but she's only 18 weeks old so have some time. Does anyone know the guidance on dairy products, I have heard that they should be avoided until 12 months? So they would just have their normal milk, not cow's milk. And no yoghurt or cheese etc.

Haven't had her weighed since 2nd December. Really should go!

CumbrianExile · 21/01/2015 17:37

On the sippy cups. At the baby group I went to this morning we had a lady come to talk about oral hygiene. She advised using the free flow cups, as they promote better muscle development. She seemed to be very much against the other cups, but I it is like anything, you go with what works for you.
We did get a free free flow sippy cup though, so I will probably give that a go. And I bought some handles at Asda for our bottles yesterday, so I will start with them soon.
That reminds me, when I was in Asda yesterday, they were starting up for a baby event. Didn't see too much of what was in it, as they were still laying it out, but might be worth a look.

RedToothBrush · 21/01/2015 17:42

Cumbrian, I've bin looking around today. I think Tesco, Asda, Morrisons and Waitrose all have baby offers on.

I've been looking at stair gates, with the fact that we are going away to a cottage in May in mind. I don't know where to begin.

I really need to get DS's passport sorted. I do not want to get caught up in passport hell like loads of people did last year.

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KitKat1985 · 21/01/2015 18:38

Lilone my understanding is that it's fine for babies to have dairy products after 6 months. What your not supposed to do is replace formula / breast milk for cows milk until after 12 months, but it's fine to use cows milk as part of feeding (e.g, to make up baby porridge). Hope that makes sense. xx

KitKat1985 · 21/01/2015 18:39

you're not your!

FATEdestiny · 21/01/2015 18:43

Dairy products are a really important aspect of an baby's diet lilone. I've not heard of it being discouraged. Yogurts, cheese, cereals - all common first foods.

You can't give normal full fat cows milk until 12 months, it has to be formula or breast milk until then. You can carry on with formula milk after 12 months, but you don't have to. I think semi-skimmed and skimmed milk can be given from Age 2.

KitKat1985 · 21/01/2015 18:45

P.S. Had a Tesco delivery earlier. The guy arrived early (before the delivery slot) and I had just latched Jessica onto my boob when he knocked on the door. In my faffing to unlatch Jessica and get to the door I forgot to do my top back up and answered the door with my bra out and then hurriedly did my buttons up in the kitchen when I realised my mistake, but no doubt the poor delivery bloke got a good look at my cleavage! Blush

Honeybear30 · 21/01/2015 18:54

Lol don't worry kitkat I have accepted a Tesco delivery with DS still attached to my boob! The guys response 'a baby's gotta be fed when a baby's gotta be fed. Can I bring this in for you?'

cookielove · 21/01/2015 19:17

Erm quick question, do you need to buy a baby a christening gift?

RedToothBrush · 21/01/2015 19:25

Anyone need a good giggle?

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holls2000 · 21/01/2015 20:01

Cookie - I usually buy a nice copy of Winnie the pooh or wind in the willows or Peter pan as a christening gift.

Red - brill. Cute kids!

Soooo....b has had much more to eat today but has brought some it back in two occasions. Now if he was sick, it would all be up each feed I imagine. However, he has started stretching and straining after a feed.....does anyone recognise this? Reflux maybe?

holls2000 · 21/01/2015 20:04

HIGHCHAIR!!!! Oh bugger my master weaning plan flawed. Any recommendations?

CumbrianExile · 21/01/2015 20:09

Cookie - It is usual to buy a christening gift but I don't think you need to. We are getting A christened in a few weeks, but am not expecting gifts off anyone.

Brilliant Red - A often sleeps like that, if only I had known Grin

Holls - A is bringing a little up with each feed at the moment. I mentioned it to my health visitor when I went to get him weighed last week (he is also drinking much less than the 'recommended' amount on the tin) and she said its nothing to worry about at the moment as long as he is continuing to gain weight, but just to keep an eye on it. He isn't doing the straining thing though, so may be different?

cookielove · 21/01/2015 20:10

red that is so cute :)

holls we are gonna get the ikea one. A bargain at £14. Oh books that's a great idea thank you :)

holls2000 · 21/01/2015 20:28

I think we still have colic. B won't settle and lots of straining and crying. it's like week 4 all over again.