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StormyBrid · 21/07/2013 08:36

Old thread here.

We seemed to be running out of space (again) so I made us a new thread.

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StormyBrid · 11/08/2013 08:27

NHS leaflet says a few pieces or spoons of food once a day at first. No one's expecting them to sit down for a three course dinner yet! I'm looking forward to seeing what DD makes of Christmas dinner though.

Banana poo was solid. I just had to spend ten minutes scrubbing it off bum cheeks with wet wipes.

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ecofreckle · 11/08/2013 08:46

Our favourite times are when she wakes from naps (very smiley and happy to have a cuddle) and pre bath in the evening when we both play with her for half an hour together.

DD is probably having her sunny stretch according to wonder weeks and is sleeping well and eating every 3 hours during day. This model baby is probably cursed now I have said that and it will all go up the spout now.

Did I mention we went to the summer baby mouth care session at our local children?s entre in the week? Ah ha ha ha?. We came out knowing that a) we should only give fizzy drinks like coke with meals and b) toothbrushes need replacing after a while. So there you have it.
We headed to a car boot sale near a naice town yesterday and git some lovely books from a teacher who was retiring and a grobag the next size up. Very pleased with self at the bargains. We went onto a NT property next for a picnic and a walk through the estate which was pleasant. DD fairly unhappy lying down out and about now though because she wants to be seeing what?s going on and she ends up doing a stomach crunch move the whole way round which can?t be good for her I?d guess. Also took the close baby carrier and instructions so all three of us could have a relaxed try by the lake. It was monumentally unsuccessful. No idea how people get on with these on their own, we couldn?t even manage with three of us!
Soyo how about last night? I?m hoping that after the every 1.75 hours you got a better stretch. Like you and several others we?ve decided on blw too, but have a while to wait yet. I did give pear in one of these though: lolly thing that looks disturbingly like a sex toy and it was lovely to see her know what to do with it. We?re going to get on the doidy this week as dh has a week off.
pud funny that you have the ikea antilop?when I faced the reality of weaning and actually did some research that?s the one I liked. The blw sites recommend it. The stokke thing was a hand-me-down from sister and I?m very grateful; I?ll just have to accept a bit of faffy cleaning for a while.

stormy I saw Brydon/Coogan in the Lakes last night and it made me yearn for it a bit. How is it? And how did LO cope with the epic journey in the end?
vj how lovely to live close to your double best friends. Having a baby can be isolating so it?s double nice for you to have them so close.
any did you get stringy banana poos? I have all of this to look forward to.

vjhist85 · 11/08/2013 09:26

Re: solid food poos, I am reliably informed that a cotton wool/baby lotion combo is more effective than wipes. We've also decided to go for full on blw, although we're not even really on every day yet, just if there's something on my plate I think she might enjoy. Hilarious banana incident the other day, I think once she'd got it in her mouth she thought it was a dummy, so stopped holding it with her hand and just looked around in a surprised manner with it sticking out of her mouth. Then she tried to swallow a bit, gagged, and promptly spewed up half her milk as well...

Wedding yesterday, dd was very well behaved for the majority, although decided the only time to scream was during the groom's speech. And she was clearly exhausted by the ordeal, as she slept til 7 this morning, then came in with us and slept til 9!

The wedding also saw the return of the dreaded period. Excellent timing. I'm sure I should be looking on this positively (4 weeks out of bfing, good I guess considering the PCOS) but I'd been happy to forget how bloody miserable it makes me!

Enjoy your Sundays everyone. We're having a lazy one here. A welcome relief from ridiculous busy-ness over the last week.

StormyBrid · 11/08/2013 09:39

She coped beautifully, eco, as I left her at home! Glad I did, too, since we didn't make it back until 11pm. It just seemed like it would be a pointless long journey for her, and it's not like she ever met either of her greatgrandparents - one died in 2010, and the other had totally lost the plot so there didn't seem much point introducing them.

As for how the Lakes are, I dunno really, we weren't there for sightseeing. I'm told the one lake we drove past was Derwent Water, and we scattered the ashes in a stream a few miles up the road from... Rosthwaite? Something like that, anyway. Very pretty place, if a bit rugged and vertical for my liking. And it was nice to see fields of sheep separated by walls for a change, rather than crop fields separated by hedges.

vj I will give cotton wool and baby lotion a try, mainly because I've had a bottle of baby lotion for the past year and haven't found a use for it yet. If you're a pregnant smoker they send someone round to harass you with a carbon monoxide detector on a regular basis, but they also bribe you with Johnson's baby products. We still have the shampoo too; DD has so little hair we'll probably still be on the same bottle when she's a year old.

Period turned up here yesterday too - two days late and ten minutes after I'd peed on a stick. Timing!

I sort of feel like I should be defending my decision to feed my baby with a spoon. But it does say spoons are okay in the NHS leaflet! And if I hold the spoon near her face, she grabs my hand, opens her mouth, and guides the spoon in, which still sounds pretty baby-led to me.

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Anypants · 11/08/2013 10:06

eco - yes, the banana poo had little black squiggly bits in it but wasn't too bad. She currently stores it up for a couple of days so I expect some pretty entertaining displays. I wonder if she'll go more often with the solids?
stormy - you don't need to defend the spoon feeding. I think it's the best way to start to give a taste and then when DD is used to trying new things (and turns 6 months in a couple of weeks) I shall plonk some finger food in front if her. She does the same thing with the grabbing of the spoon so I think it would be fine to let her have control. Fun times! Grin

Eigmum · 11/08/2013 10:41

Yep, baby rice made with formula a no no here! However avocado and pear seemed more of a hit.

worsestershiresauce · 11/08/2013 13:38

Oh wow, so much to catch up on. Fun isn't it, this weaning lark. Yesterday was the first time I have ever seen the tiddler get so excited about food, milk or otherwise. Full on stretching hands out to grab, with accompanying squeaks of frustration. Transpires she like peach and pear purée from a pouch. She doesn't like it quite enough to swallow it, but the taste is obviously way up there. Having tasted it myself I can see her point. Much nicer than formula.

Stormy nothing wrong with a spoon in my book. I wait for dd to grab it and open her mouth too. Seems to work.

My favourite time of day.... ah, there are many. First thing, when she wakes up, coos and then greets me with the biggest grin ever and a full on body wriggle. Late evening before her final bottle when she falls asleep on me for a nap. When she giggles (aren't baby giggles just gorgeous). To many to list really - babies are so much fun.

Thursday's my exploration date Eco. Never thought I'd be looking forward to a general quite so much, but I'm counting the minutes. Really uncomfortable now, constant nagging pain and miserable side effects from the cysts. Hope your's have cleared up VJ. Pregnancy can settle things down, and a period is a good sign. Fingers crossed for you.

Having lots of fun on the low GI front. So far have cracked a tooth on a stone in some pumpernickel bread, and chipped another on some grit in the oatbran. Bl**dy wholefoods. Sometimes I think wholefood is a synonym rubbish quality control and outrageous pricing. On the upside I have a really good excuse again for declining cake. I cannot develop a liking for it, and find forcing it down to be polite beyond tedious.

Glad the shred's going well Plonky, you sound scary fit! Two words VJ. Pelvic floor Wink. Sorry couldn't resist. Bet you're doing them now though Grin

Plonkysaurus · 11/08/2013 14:54

Ds's favourite time of day is morning. We all get up and have breakfast together around 7.30, and it's lovely. He has such big gummy smiles for his daddy. Makes my heart melt!

Worse the low GI diet sounds intriguing. Is the overall aim to cut out processed, sugary foods? I hope your teeth survive and all goes well for you on Thursday. Fx they get you some answers. As for my fitness...it's not as great as youd imagine but im rather bloody minded. I'm determined to be a size ten by Christmas, and I'm certain ill get there. Sadly I could eat my cake and yours Grin. My sweet tooth knows no bounds! I have to buy double deckers and galaxy caramel for dp as then there's no danger of me going near. I love a bit of cheese though.

Stormy DS is slowly coming round to spoons. We use them for things I can't figure out to blw with. If dp had his way we'd be 100% spoon feeding - each to his own and all that.

We had the mother of all solid food poos today. And for the first time there was no grunting or crying. I now vow to keep lotion in the change box. Works a treat.

Right, off to clean again. Bloody visitors. oh just dropping round, are you? No, IT'S FINE

Eigmum · 11/08/2013 16:55

so I have uploaded a new picture of DD in her christening gown, which was also the one I wore and my mother wore - sweet!

Stormy - we are spoon here - its a matter of what works for you and baby I think! as a mother of a toddler having one that can use a spoon is uber useful when you have two kids! Baby rice is a definite no no though - hates the stuff but all other foods are being entertained .... I have spent a good part of the afternoon googling horror stories on babies who wont take the bottle when mummy goes back to work. I keep telling myself she will be 7 months old so by then will be on some sort of food and I might as well keep going while she is gaining weight and happy etc and switch nearer the time or at least feed her first thing etc. For those of you who have been around since the beginning you will know I have been trying to move on for ages - if we meet the 6 month NHS target it will be pure willpower on the part of DD and I suppose I can be reassured she knows how to get what she wants but if this is what she is like at 5 months god help me when she is 15!!!

Any of the other breastfeeders going to move on at 6 months or are you all in it for the long haul??

ecofreckle · 11/08/2013 18:42

in haste as it is bathtime but eig ahhhhh!!! Gorgeous photo and gorgeous girl Smile

pudtat · 11/08/2013 18:48

Eig I return to work end of next month so will need to begin weaning him off day feeds in a couple of weeks. I'm not prepared to pump so he will be moving to formula for those. I will try to retain morning and evening feeds although not sure if I will be able to manage night feeds and work. Hope he will broadly be sleeping through by then - he did it again last night.

Mind you, trying not to assume my supply will hold out on such reduced feeding - with all the issues I've had I'm assuming not and then if it does that's a bonus. My aim was to do 6 months, for a while there it didn't look like I'd make that, so to be planning my retreat feels like a win.

pudtat · 11/08/2013 19:09

And now out of the app where I can't see photos... Awwww! So sweet Eig!

Makes me want to consider a christening for DS but we won't do that. Quite fancy a naming ceremony and a party though...

ecofreckle · 11/08/2013 19:16

eig Dh is currently drying the screamer so I'm back. BF wise DD was a bottle refuser for 3 months. She cracked on holiday when we were all chilled and Daddy was persistent. I had hoped that I'd be able to BF for the first 6 weeks and we managed to get through that and we even managed to get through to 3 months (when things settled down and feeding stopped hurting). Since then it has, for us, been a breeze and every day extra we manage I am surprised and happy. Not sure what my aim is anymore but I did read a thread on the WHO suggested 2 years last night and didn't pull a areyoucrazyface so we carry on day to day, as, in theory I don't return to work until she is 12mo (even though we're already eating lentils). Sorry that's not much help and stop that googling of horror stories! That girl looks like she'll take that bottle in her own good time and that'll probably we the week before you go back!

Plonkysaurus · 11/08/2013 19:18

Oh Eig she's lovely!

I mention ask eco, how's your friend getting on? My friend sent me her scan photo, made me even more insanely broody.

Stormy did you just casually mention that you poas?!

Eigmum · 11/08/2013 19:20

Pundat sounds like we go back roughly the same time, I'll be officially re joining the workforce on 1 October ahhh! I know it's going to be hard, last time was awful and now I have two little darlings to leave and one that doesn't take a bottle yet but I tell myself it's not for ever. I go back til Christmas full time (so my maternity leave will be paid) and then we will see....

Eigmum · 11/08/2013 19:27

I am sure you guys are right and given the size of her I doubt she'll refuse food for too long!! Still, I love to worry! what does Poas mean?

Eigmum · 11/08/2013 19:30

Googled it. Funny, little ones asleep so off to get some dinner before the white queen!!

SoYo · 11/08/2013 19:34

Eig she's lovely, I really need to pull my finger out & organise a christening here too!

My BF plan of attack is to wean her onto a cup by 9m but goodness knows if I'll manage to stop BFing then. I just can't imagine a cup feed getting her to sleep at night. I guess we'll just have to persevere & play it by ear. All a bit of a shock really as I never wanted to do beyond the 6m & thought there was a good chance I'd stop earlier. These babies really do know their own minds, don't they! I think you're right Eig, we're going to have some troublesome teens on our hands.

We've had a day of snoozing on the sofa, watching films & playing on the living room floor here. Very relaxing bit probably too many naps, oops. We also took her for a spin in her new well new to us maclaren buggy which was a hit & will be so much easier when the car's full or at the grandparents. It's amazing the things you get excited about now, how life has changed!

StormyBrid · 11/08/2013 19:53

I did, plonko, because generally I'm very regular. Had a spare test in the bathroom so figured I'd set my mind at ease.

Will check out the latest photo when I'm on the laptop. There'll be no christening here though, we're militant atheists in this house.

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ecofreckle · 11/08/2013 20:06

plonky friend promised to ring over weekend and that only reason she wouldn't would be if she was in labour. Despite cradling phone all weekend I've heard nothing so guess it's all going on. SHe's tiny. Had a back to back whopper last time who got infection and was very sick so she suffered traumatic thoughts. AFter much consideration she didn't opt for ecs this time so really hope it all goes well for her! Thanks for asking

pudtat · 12/08/2013 15:20

Gosh it's quiet in here...

Any news yet Eco?

StormyBrid · 12/08/2013 17:32

Not quiet here, madam's been in a very shouty mood all day. She's been a bit off all weekend. It's either teeth or an impending wonder week. Roll on bedtime!

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LaLaLeni · 12/08/2013 18:14

Hello ladies - far too shattered to read through everything I've missed, suffice it to say that I've skimmed and got the gist!

We're all moved in, I'm sitting on an office chair surrounded by chaos - boxes of things that have mo furniture to live in yet, and a dishwasher we don't know how to fit. The dryer seems to heat up the inside of the cupboard door, making a chemically burning smell which is somewhat worrying!

We had a lovely walk all the way over to the Royal Observatory, through the park around the Cutty Sark and through Greenwich town centre yesterday, culminating in a pint sitting on the grass of Shooters' Hill. I absolutely love it here Grin

The sofa arrives tomorrow thankfully and then our bedroom furniture on Weds, so a solid day of assembling flat pack ahead Confused

DS is in his big cot, but has woken wanting food at least three times every night so far. It's surely too early for the next developmental leap? He's only 19 weeks! Last night he was absolutely howling, but then woke up at about 4am having done a massive sick that required changing all bedding and wiping it out of his eyes Shock. He's done 3 poos today too and the last one was sort of oily...

StormyBrid · 12/08/2013 18:34

Glad you're settling in alright, Leni. Possibly ds is a bit unsettled due to the new environment? As for the poo, have you been feeding him anything? I'd lost track and hadn't realised he was only nineteen weeks.

We just had a good poke at DD's gums. Looks like the bottom left may be planning an appearance!

Any other babies discovered their bits yet? I think we need some bath toys - haven't got any yet so she's making do with her labia...

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pudtat · 12/08/2013 19:25

Think 19 weeks is a wonder week...