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InmaculadaConcepcion · 19/07/2013 21:00

Come on in, Chicas!

Dive into the bubbly and home-baking and take advantage of our deluxe creche....

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JewelFairies · 05/12/2013 21:33

Or not Grin

LeMousquetaireAnonyme · 06/12/2013 06:54
Xmas Smile
LeMousquetaireAnonyme · 06/12/2013 06:57

A good thing that the adults don't put their shoes or DH would have had a stick.... mawwwaaahh

JewelFairies · 06/12/2013 09:28

Grin We did put a shoe out but we've been good Grin. I got marzipan filled with nougat

SconesForTea · 07/12/2013 10:30

Hi everyone. Just checking in. DD2 is ill and attached to my boob on my lap, and DH and DD1 have gone to get a Christmas tree.

I need to shift DD2 soon because we have this weird infestation of teeny flies in our front room in the bay window (gross) and this is my chance to attack them with bleach. They have been there for 5 months, we can't see where they are coming from although they were originally from a windowsill plant. Really horrible. They not only fly but crawl all over the floor

SconesForTea · 07/12/2013 10:37

I had a really lovely afternoon with DD1 yesterday, doing crafty things while DD2 slept. It was so lovely; it was a revelation to me because honestly I have not enjoyed spending time with her at all lately. It just reinforced to me that it is my problem, not hers, and that I need to make more time for her and change my attitude. It's fine when DD2 is asleep but I'm not sure how I'll manage it once she's not napping any more. Thankfully DD2 doesn't seem in any danger of giving up her nap yet

Then I did a jigwaw with DD1 this morning before DD2 woke up. I know that is a normal parenting thing to do, but it's the kind of thing I haven't done for ages because of The Rage. And again it was lovely. But DD2 is still more at the destroying jigsaws stage than making them (behind, probably, but that's the poor neglected second child for you).

I feel suddenly more chilled out but perhaps that's because we had a good night and I have not had much alcohol to drink lately because of my ongoing cold. Lessons to be learned there.

Right - DD2 is asleep so I must go and clear up flies They're going to get all over the TREE

InmaculadaConcepcion · 09/12/2013 15:29

Hello!!!

Sorry I've been so neglectful of the thread lately - mainly because of getting Xmas sorted, so every opportunity online has been spent sorting out presents for DD, DS, DH and our respective families. That, and a busier social life (mainly child-centred) with the approach of Xmas and various birthdays and other things....whew.

I'm so sorry to hear you've been ill JF and stoof and that your asthma has been playing up, CP how are you? How's T1 going, rainbow? How are your DD2's teeth and friendship issues now, Mous? SR are you feeling any brighter now?

Scones I find DD kicks off most when she is bored and not getting enough attention. She's great at playing on her own for longish periods, but obviously needs adults to notice and play with her too. So yes, doing activities with her is a great idea. I've started playing "pretending" games with DD, helping her to reinvent some of her toys as different characters in different scenarios etc. and she loves that. It often means she will then continue the game on her own when I've dipped out, too. It is hard though, trying not to be too shouty. I definitely shout too much, despite my best efforts and all the positive parenting strategies I try and put into place. When DD carries out unprovoked attacks on DS in particular, I tend to lose it pretty quickly.

But to catch up, the good news is that since DD won her Big Girl Bed for 20 poos in the loo, she hasn't regressed to a nappy at all (by choice - she did one at night when she was a bit poorly, I'm not counting that). She's now down to one sachet of Movicol per day and it's looking good for reducing that as well.
She too still needs a nappy at night and shows no sign of not doing so for some time. I'm interested in what you say about ADH SR....

DD has reached the dizzy heights (!) of Size 6 shoes now - eek! Time to get the wallet out again!!

DS is walking with more and more confidence, starting to climb everything and is insatiably curious about everything in the way DD never really was (well, not to the extent of turfing out everything within reach!) He still adores books and now comes up to me or DH with a book and tells us (in his own language) that he would like it read to him, please. He still wakes up a couple of times a night and we're currently going through a phase of him taking a while to resettle, which grinds me down somewhat. I think he's going to have to be Ferberised after Christmas as I'm running out of patience with it now. But generally, he's on good form!

Has anyone else discovered Boots Cold and Flu Defence nasal spray? Bloody brilliant (and okay during pregnancy/breast-feeding). I've managed to reduce DS' last two colds to minor sniffles, DD's last one was over in two days and I've fended them off myself completely. The DC's hate receiving it (although it doesn't really cause much sensation) but, by golly it seems to work!!

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JewelFairies · 09/12/2013 18:33

IC Hold that wallet- I have a bag of shoes for you!! Grin

InmaculadaConcepcion · 10/12/2013 14:06

Yay, thanks JF Smile

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InmaculadaConcepcion · 10/12/2013 14:07

How about we exchange them for tea and cake next time you're in the vicinity of our place, JF? Smile

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InmaculadaConcepcion · 10/12/2013 14:07

...or coffee, of course!

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JewelFairies · 11/12/2013 21:42
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LeMousquetaireAnonyme · 19/12/2013 06:27

I have let the thread fallen out of my list and let JF talked to herself so just waving to get it back and to everybody watching!

JewelFairies · 19/12/2013 13:21

That's quite alright Mous, I like my own company Xmas Grin. I'm considering deleting my fb account though, so if anyone wants me I can be found here and also happy to give my email address to anyone who wants it.

LeMousquetaireAnonyme · 20/12/2013 12:13

just gaahhhh, MIL has manflu, she can't do anything. Has asked for opinion on Xmas gifts for the dds and then completely dismissed them apparently books for dd1 and a princess dress for dd2 are not good enough even if I know they would both love it. Now they have 3 presents each that may or may not arrive in time despite everything else being bought already. Great their birthday is soon. Apparently children fight if they don't have the same number of presents not mine and all my idea are to be dismissed Hmm
just gaaaaah

stoofadoof · 20/12/2013 21:24

hello! don't ditch FB JF I'll never see you!! I keep giving myself a kick up the bum, but I just can't keep on top of both mn and fb.. i'm only here cos mous said!! maybe i need to do some more work on my phone to suss out how to get MN working on there!

DH has flu (no, honest, he really has) am keeping everything crossed that none of the rest of us get it… IC am intrigued by the boots thingamajig - how does that work then?!?! Xmas Confused

right, off to bed - just can't get enough sleep at the moment and it looks like i'll be solo parenting this weekend, with the addition of poorly dh to look after…

also been getting a really weird rapid eye movement thing… i look like i've been hitting the class a's which obv i haven't, but it's weird… am avoiding googling at present - dont' want to know! (clearly I can't tell myself it's happening, but DH keeps noticing and filmed it for me so i could see it…. weird) any thoughts on a postcard!

JewelFairies · 20/12/2013 21:56

Stoof Thanks. Hope both you and your dh feel a bit better by Christmas. I had flu a few weeks ago ( I'm very clever and have now twice got the strain not included in the jab!). We're a sick household right now as well. Dd1 was very very sick last night (we have had to throw away the rug from her room.. Luckily I managed to stop her in her tracks before she reached the landing. Then got dh to tidy up because he's fab with sick and dog poo.) and I am very borderline with a chest infection (my lungs are shot after a few bouts of pneumonia leading to severe asthma ).
Ps. None of the family got flu when I got it last Christmas and November this year. Fx

As for your rapid eye movement - freaky. Try to get some sleep and rest please!

Mous Sending you strength and patience!! At least I have no MIL but I'm preparing myself for my sister visiting while we are at my parents...

ClimbingPenguin · 22/12/2013 21:17

I had that too recently stoof passed after a week. Stress, caffeine etc seem to be main things

ClimbingPenguin · 22/12/2013 21:20

I brought DD a present in the end (volcano thing from charity shop). Got DS a more suitable car garage as the one ILs got for his birthday was for 3+ and too delicate for him.

Got a puzzle out for DS a week ago, actually first time I have done them with him. A week later he can do the 25 by himself (he's a little attached to it though)

JewelFairies · 23/12/2013 09:46

I like this. Just finished breakfast. Dh went to work early and when dd1 appeared at 8 demanding breakfast I asked her if she'd like to get her own cereal. She thought that was brilliant and went on to feed her sister, too. Then they came back at 9, asking what now, should they get dressed? Xmas Grin By that point I felt guilty and got up. I'm now planning to teach dd1 to put the coffee on... There's light at the end of the small child relentlessness! Wonder what else I can delegate today.

LeMousquetaireAnonyme · 23/12/2013 15:40

JF you will love 7/8 yo Wink. DD1 cooks now and bake on her own, she is also the only one who can calm her sister sometimes she also is the only one who knows how to push her buttons, unfortunately She can also hoover and tidy with the right motivations...

JewelFairies · 23/12/2013 15:53
Xmas Grin
JewelFairies · 24/12/2013 15:15

Dd2 is already losing the plot in anticipation of Christmas (in our case tonight) and I am hoping there won't be a huge melt down. I'm not really in the mood yet but may cheer up over a nice dinner with wine and then presents in front of a nice fire. Dd1 has taken an age to lay the table with two crackers per person and little star shapes arranged around plates. She said earlier that she'd love Christmas even if she got no presents (but I'm sure she'll appreciate the longed for pink Furby making an appearance.

InmaculadaConcepcion · 24/12/2013 19:26

Merry Christmas lovely thread friends

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InmaculadaConcepcion · 24/12/2013 19:27
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