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March 2012 - Brewed to Perfection!

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TroubleAndFyfe · 26/03/2012 06:59

Hello all, come and add your babies to the list and let's see what adventures they bring! Smile

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EnglishGirlApproximately · 24/10/2012 17:11

Thanks for your reassurances , it seems like all of our babies are doing different things with regards to movement. I'm taking him to get weighed in a couple of weeks so I'll speak to the hv then. I think I need to stop comparing him to other babies tbh!

broody he was only a week early so I don't think I can use that excuse.

I think part of the problem (my problem not his) is that a lot of the mums I know seem to be rushing to get their babies to how up iyswim. Among FB friends and local mums they all weaned early, have their babies in walkers at 4 months, looking at stage 1 car seats etc. I'm happy for Sam to be a baby for a long time yet. He's my first and only so I want to enjoy each stage. I hope that makes sense. I'm not judging anyone I think I just want things to happen in their own time.

EnglishGirlApproximately · 24/10/2012 17:22

Oh, no teeth here yet either! He gets very angry with cucumber as he loves the taste but it takes forever to eat.

pommes my sleep is like yours. We moved Sam into his own room last week in the hope he would sleep better but no luck. He goes to sleep no problem about 7.15 but, without fail, wakes around midnight. He will go back to sleep but wakes every few hours unless he comes into bed with me. If I bring him in he goes out like a light and doesn't stir until about 7. Guess where he normally ends up sleeping? Grin The worst thing is he slept through in his cot from 11 - 24 weeks. I think he's mocking us now :)

Anyone else having extreme separation anxiety?

broodylicious · 24/10/2012 17:25

I see exactly what you mean!!!! I'm so pleased I've heard someone say that!!!! I thought In a weird way it might have been me feeling almost jealous of other people having babies that made me think they were doing things that only poppy and I had done a week or so ago, even if their LO is eight weeks younger. Iyswim!

I also think - blimey, I hope I've read you right on this score too english or I will look a right cow! Advance apologies just in case - that they would take any shortcut for an easy life so weaning early in the hope of better sleep, switching to formula to fill them up more so not as much pressure on mummy, trying cry it out rather than thinking baby just needs a cuddle, moving baby to their own room really early (like four weeks) just because they were disturbing mum and dad with a bit of snoring or farting or grumbling etc in the night.... Honestly, I do wonder if these people ever even considered before getting pregnant that babies are not dolls and are living, breathing things that will have some requirements from their parents. (I also think lack of sleep and frustration with mr broody is making me a bit ranty today haha!!)

broodylicious · 24/10/2012 17:35

pommes yeah poppy doesn't like me leaving her for two seconds these days!! She had a massive strop the other day when DH took over so I could have a little rest (to do the garden, not sleep Sad) and I ended up having to stop what I was doing and tend to her. It's the hardest at night for me because I now desperately need sleep - I know I'm getting depression and can't stop getting frustrated with Poppy for not going to sleep when I really need her to - but she needs me and only me and won't settle for DH. I get frustrated with me because I don't want her to cry but know I've got to stop feeding her at every wake because this is now learned behaviour and she will never ever ever ever go to sleep for longer than a few hours of she knows she can cry and mummy's boob aka Poppy's pacifier will come soon Sad

EnglishGirlApproximately · 24/10/2012 17:55

broody I am with you. Sam is ff as I really struggled with bf and when it got to the point where we with spent most of the day crying we decided it was time to change. I think in a way that's why I'm so keen for everything else to take its time?

If only ff and weaning made babies sleep through! We didn't plan to co sleep but it makes us a happier family if we are well rested and I just don't have it ime to do cc, sleep training and the rest. It would break me Sad

I was supposed to back at work in December but we've decided this week that I'm going to resign. Very daunting as I've always worked full time but we can manage and I'll look for a part time job ime the new year. What are all of your plans after maternity leave?

TroubleAndFyfe · 24/10/2012 19:14

Wow, busy here! Welcome pommes! Grin
Sorry to hear you're having a hard time with sleep again broody! Sad maybe Poppy's not ready yet? Very sorry that Mr Broody said something hurtful to you! Sad
Teeth are a funny thing, people see them as a developmental thing but they aren't at all, having teeth doesn't make you clever or mean you're more advanced, just like hair! Fyfe got his bottom two at 4.5 months and I think one of the top ones will be through very soon, 8 months next week though so has been a big gap. He doesn't eat any better than his gummy blw friend either! Grin
Although Fyfe is in his room he's still waking every 3 hours some nights pommes, that's good for us though as had a long time of every hour!
Someone asked before about bf and eating, I'm still just bf on demand so sometimes it's just before a meal, sometimes not. He ate loads today so I'm happy with that, think I needed to remind myself of the 'food is fun until one' mantra too! Grin
I still bf Fyfe every time he wakes as it settles him so well, I don't really see it as an issue tbh. Yeah, DH can't do nights but he doesn't wake anyway so hey ho! Wink
Not in any hurry for him to grow up, I'd love to keep him this age for a while, he's just awesome! At the same time it is exciting watching him learn and develop so it's all good! Smile

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Lawabidingmama · 24/10/2012 22:24

Hello everyone I see we've all been busy with new things!!! english second what everyone else said your DS sounds perfectly normal every baby is different! My little Emmie started crawling at 6.5 month already pulls herself up and cruises her big sister didn't crawl till 9 months but did do other things that Emmie doesn't IYSWIM

Emmie is very interactive gives kisses dances responds to her name tries to clap etc I put alot of this down to her watching her big sister as I certainly haven't tried to rush her baby hood! I enjoy every stage but with her being my second I know how quickly it passes unfortunately she doesn't seem to want to be a baby!!!

No teeth here either my eldest was 8-9 month when she got her first I have friends whose babies didn't get any till after 12 month!

It does get annoying when people ask are they doing xyz yet?! People always looked at me in shock for not weaning till 6 months 'what you don't even give her breakfast!!??' Like I'm starving her! And now she's a pretty good eater it's 'oh bless she was ready for food' you can't win so I don't try to anymore!

We've just moved her into her own room and I've spent the first two nights sleeping in there so believe me it's not just a pfb thing she's a psb haha! Tbh I worry more this time than I did first time I constantly think I can't be this lucky to have two such wonderful daughters..,,

Sleep wise [touch wood] much better 2-4 times s night from me seeing every hour on the clock tick by!! broody I'm sorry your having sleep issues there is nothing like it it takes over sleep deprivation is a form of torture :( and really affects your relationships have you seen your hv? How is your DD getting on re the possible silent reflux? I'm probably speaking totally out of turn but have you considered food intolerances?

Loobylou222 · 24/10/2012 22:48

Hi everyone fairly new here:) my daughter is almost 7 months, she was born 29/03/12.

Lately she has been suffering with quite bad nappy rash I was wondering if anyone could suggest anything?
I have tried sudocreme, bepanthen, and Vaseline and nothing seems to be making a difference.

TroubleAndFyfe · 25/10/2012 00:17

Hi looby Grin a friend gave me an amazing tip recently, whisk an egg white until fluffy then paint on to the bum with cotton wool every nappy change until the rash is clear, it really works, took one day to completely go! Smile

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Lawabidingmama · 25/10/2012 06:20

looby my eldest got nappy rash a couple of times fab tip from trouble :) also there is a cream called metanium works in a few hours its amazing! If it still won't shift take her to the docs if its thrush the creams won't work she will need a prescription for an anti fungal x

Pommes · 25/10/2012 09:20

Morning all, how was sleep last night? I had my wriggly bear in the bed all night again, I do complain but it is lovely to wake up to such a big smile (when he realises he?s won his battle to get into the big bed again!).

I did hear/read somewhere that the longer teeth take the emerge, the stronger they tend to be. If there is any truth in this then be reassured your baby?s teeth have that little added protection.

English we are definitely experiencing separation anxiety, particularly when DS is getting tired. During the day when it?s just the two of us he?s quite content providing that I am in view, the minute I leave the room he becomes so upset. I now find myself using the bathroom with both baby and cat sat outside the open door, beaming widely!

Sleep deprivation truly is awful Broody, at the weekend DP will take DS to play in the living room first thing in the morning for a few hours to let me to have some non-disturbed sleep. It really does make a difference, maybe you could suggest something similar to Mr Broody once he?s offered you that profound apology?

Trouble I am still feeding on demand too, I don?t see a problem with it either. I have noticed that he?s ?demanding? less often since weaning started, he does make up the milk intake during the night though! Has anyone yet mastered not feeding to sleep?

It is so difficult not to draw comparisons with other babies of the same age, I have even been known to YouTube videos of ?babies at seven months? to reassure myself that we are on track. I think it?s only natural. My mum compares my DS (her PFG) to her children (I was her PFB) at his age, I get quite defensive when she makes comments like ?I wonder if he?ll be walking at nine months, like you were? and need to remind myself it?s actually me she?s proudly comparing him to. Interestingly, I did read somewhere that babies tend to sit/crawl/roll later since the SIDs research was published and it was recommended that babies sleep on their backs, as I so often remind my mother!

I think comparisons must be a female thing, a few of my DP?s work friends had babies at about the same time, whenever I ask him how their babies are doing/sleeping I am met with a very blank expression!

Aside from the sleep deprivation and separation anxiety creeping in, I am finding this stage the best so far. DS is so chirpy and interactive, he?s so much fun to be around. My dad described him yesterday as an ?instant lift? when hearing him giggle over the phone.

Loobylou222 · 25/10/2012 10:02

Thanks everyone I will try both! She also gets eczema on her cheeks and in the creases of her legs and arms. She was up most of te night as it was so sore, it's worse at the minute because she is about to cut a tooth. Can they get eczema down there too I was wondering weather to put the cream from docs down there but I scared in case it irritates her even more.

EnglishGirlApproximately · 25/10/2012 10:33

Sleep?? I also had a wriggly baby in bed. He went to sleep no problem at 7.30 then woke within half an hour of me going to bed. The minute I put him in my bed he went straight to sleep. He knows exactly what he's doing Grin

Having a peaceful cup of tea now as my dad has just kidnapped ds and taken him for a walk around the village.

madscimum · 25/10/2012 20:16

Hi everyone, and welcome to the new faces :)

Did I mention that I took the bouncy chair (ahem, the poo chair Blush) to Germany? It worked we got a poo every AM! I decided to as she gets really fussy if she doesn't poo. I'm glad today we didn't have a morning poo and she's been a nightmare all day :( Screaming all the time. I keep trying the chair and she's only just finally gone a little. I've put her back in there for a bit in the hopes more comes out. I think she's also teething as nothing seems to help her and she grins whenever I smile at her and then screams some more.

I actually found being on the trip easier than being home. I know that sounds odd, but DD really liked the stimulation of going places and at home when I sit at the computer or want to rest she's much less happy. And I came back to madness at work and have been working past 10pm each day and feel really guilty as I should be spending time with DD and DH. And now DH has gone out for the evening and I feel like I should keep working because now I wouldn't be ignoring him, but I'm exhausted and want a break. (Sorry for the vent, today's just been really hard, what with trying to work with screaming baby!)

Sorry to hear about your DH broody :( Hope he is nicer soon.

BeeWi · 26/10/2012 07:54

Hi all and welcome to the new ladies! Grin

I thought it'd be nice if those of you who haven't added your stats would like to (mainly because I'm a nosey bugger WinkGrin).

Here's the list:
Jezzabell: 29/02/12 DD 7lb 10.5oz
TroubleAndFyfe: 01/03/12 DS Fyfe weighing 8lb 5oz
BeeWi: 09/03/12 DD Erin weighing 8lb 7oz
Stogan: 11/03/12 DD Ellyson weighing 7lb 13.5oz
Winterland: 12/03/12 DD
KikiRC: 14/03/12 DD Ivy Wren weighing 6lb 15oz
Broodylicious: 26/03/12 DD Poppy weighing 8lb 9oz

So I did jinx things. After our short bout of occasionally sleeping through, we're back to several wake ups but now she's a nightmare to put down. She won't feed to sleep any more and for the last three nights I have been feeding, rocking her and despairing for 2 hours plus from around 2 or 2.30 in the morning until after 4am, only for her then to wake after an hour. She will sleep in my arms but as soon as I try and put her down she screams. Think we may be going through separation anxiety. Also, if she wakes and I'm not here she doesn't just chatter, it's a full on screamathon. Brilliant. Sad.

On a happy note, she has learned to clap. It's so cute, we say 'Erin clap' and she grins and claps. It melts me.

EnglishGirlApproximately · 26/10/2012 08:04

I'l add my stats as I'm also nosy :)

Samuel Joseph 22/03/2012 7lb 5oz.

One of the intetesting things about reading this thread is that there doesn't seem to be much sleeping through. I'm sure we have all met people who say their babies slept through from 12 weeks but where are they?

Are sleeping babies a myth? :)

Loobylou222 · 26/10/2012 09:08

Jezzabell: 29/02/12 DD 7lb 10.5oz
TroubleAndFyfe: 01/03/12 DS Fyfe weighing 8lb 5oz
BeeWi: 09/03/12 DD Erin weighing 8lb 7oz
Stogan: 11/03/12 DD Ellyson weighing 7lb 13.5oz
Winterland: 12/03/12 DD
KikiRC: 14/03/12 DD Ivy Wren weighing 6lb 15oz
Broodylicious: 26/03/12 DD Poppy weighing 8lb 9oz
Loobylou222: 29/03/12

I have to say I have been quite lucky with the whole sleeping thing, a
Dd slept through from about 3 months, we have the odd night (like few nights ago) where she doesn't want to sleep but she good on the whole. She suffers from terrible eczema though so its swings and roundabouts!

Loobylou222 · 26/10/2012 09:09

Oh whoops didn't add details: Lola Susan Lesley weighing 7.7

Pinkpiglet · 26/10/2012 09:55

Jezzabell: 29/02/12 DD 7lb 10.5oz
TroubleAndFyfe: 01/03/12 DS Fyfe weighing 8lb 5oz
BeeWi: 09/03/12 DD Erin weighing 8lb 7oz
Stogan: 11/03/12 DD Ellyson weighing 7lb 13.5oz
Winterland: 12/03/12 DD
KikiRC: 14/03/12 DD Ivy Wren weighing 6lb 15oz
PinkPiglet: 21/03/2012 DD Isobel weighing 7lb 5.5oz
Broodylicious: 26/03/12 DD Poppy weighing 8lb 9oz
Loobylou222: 29/03/12 Lola Susan Lesley weighing 7lb 7oz

I hope the sleeping is starting to get better. Night sleeping is better here than it has been, just need to work on the daytime naps now!

broodylicious · 26/10/2012 10:01

So I noticed from these stats that my pfb was the heaviest! I'd bet she is one of the lightest now though.... She weighed only 12:9 at 24 weeks, the last time I had her weighed. What are all your babes weighing these days?

It's Poppy's seven month birthday today btw Grin

BeeWi · 26/10/2012 10:58

Lou. - have you got any tips for stopping your baby scratching with themselves? A dear friend of mine has a baby with terrible eczema and they are still having to swaddle, even though he's cracking on 7 months. It's the only way to stop him attacking his eyes in his sleep, as even wearing mits still allows him to rub until they're raw, poor mite.

Broody - I took LO to get weighed on her 6 month birthday and she was 16lb 5oz. She has been all over the charts, having dropped down to 25th from near 75th and then gone backup to 50th. Her height has climbed to around 75th again too, after dropping a bit She feels like a little lead weight at the moment, so wouldn't be surprised if she's climbed again. I'm touching 5'11 and my husband is 6'1, so I would have expected her to be taller on the charts, if genetics is anything to go by. Wondering if me having dairy again may make a difference to her too, as before I was vegetarian and having to cut out dairy for her but now she seems ok, so have been reintroducing it slowly.
Happy 7 month birthday to Poppy too!

EnglishGirlApproximately · 26/10/2012 11:11

Sam has been on the 50th centile from birth without any deviation. He gets weighed again in a couple of weeks so we'll see if weaning has made any difference.

Could I just ask what your daytime nap routines are?

Pommes · 26/10/2012 11:54

Morning all, Callum was born at 8lb 4oz and is now just under the 91st, a whopping 20lb 8oz (or bigger, he was weighed three weeks ago). DP is very tall (6ft 4in) and baby seems to be tall too, only his legs are chunky! He still fits into size 6-9 months but probably only for a few more weeks.

English, Callum has two naps each day usually. One at about 11am (after waking at about 8am) and the other later during the afternoon (at about 4pm). It's taking a little bit more 'encouragement' for him to fall asleep during the daytime now, he fights his tiredness as much as possible. He will usually sleep in the car but no longer sleeps in his pram if we go out for a walk. The naps are usually only about 30 minutes ? so much for sleeping when they sleep, eh? Smile

Loobylou222 · 26/10/2012 15:06

beewi I have cetraben emollient cream and bath wash, which helped in the beggining but don't seem to be making any difference now. Wet back to the doctors about 2 weeks ago and for some mild steroid cream which seems to work on the backs of he knees. Elbows but not on face or chest.
She was always hated be swaddled so don't think that will be any good, the next step is scratch mits I think.

Lola weighed 14.10 4 weeks ago, she is on the ninth centile, we had a lot of issues with her weight up untill she was 4 months as I had a lot of problems when bf.

Lawabidingmama · 26/10/2012 19:21

I don't know how to copy and paste the other babies as I'm on my phone but here's mine

Emmie Jayne 18.03.2012 7lb 2 oz

Emmie has tracked between 25th and 9th since birth she was weighed today and is 14lb 12 :)

She doesn't sleep 12 hours straight but goes 7-7 with two short wake ups on a good night for which I am delighted :) I don't know where all these elusive sleepy babies are! I did read somewhere that sleeping through us technically when they go 5 hours though!!

She is also a nap dodger has 30-45 mins every morning about half nine then usually either two more short naps or one long one but she's a but unpredictable!