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Mumsnet backing Reform?

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Oioisavaloy27 · 05/01/2026 15:00

I can't read the article properly but it's in the Independent that Mumsnet is backing Reform, is this true?

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HamToasties · 19/02/2026 12:24

BIossomtoes · 19/02/2026 08:52

If I sold it while alive the money would be used to buy another house or to pay care home fees. It wouldn’t be sold after my death to pay inheritance tax, it would be sold for the beneficiaries of my will to get their inheritance. And quite honestly if £1 million tax free, plus 60% of the rest isn’t enough for them my parenting was fucked.

It’s not a question of it being “enough” - it’s more that I want the inheritance that we (and generations before us) worked so hard for, to pass onto our family and not the government.

thedogdaysareover51 · 19/02/2026 12:31

@HamToasties Yes from 2027-it’s the inheritance tax on my father in law’s pension that will affect us when he passes away (not that I’m hoping for this-we are very close). This is a change under Labour and his pension will be subject to 40% inheritance tax. So when we sell his house that he has stayed in for 60 years, all of this (around £500k) will have to be handed over as tax. I defy anyone to not feel sick about this.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 19/02/2026 12:36

thedogdaysareover51 · 18/02/2026 11:24

We would be at least £500k better off with Reform purely due to their pledge to scrap inheritance tax. And that’s before I calculate how much DH would save on corporation tax for his business. While I don’t love all their policies, I will vote for Reform if they keep these policies in their manifesto.

It's at least understandable why someone with this level of wealth and greed might choose to vote for Reform. There is at least a logic to it.

It is much less understandable as to why vast swathes of ordinary people seem to think that Reform is going to do anything for them. Turkeys voting for Christmas. It's really difficult to watch.

But I suppose Brexit has already proved to us that people can quite easily be manipulated to vote for acts of self harm, so I guess we shouldn't be surprised really.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 19/02/2026 12:37

thedogdaysareover51 · 19/02/2026 12:31

@HamToasties Yes from 2027-it’s the inheritance tax on my father in law’s pension that will affect us when he passes away (not that I’m hoping for this-we are very close). This is a change under Labour and his pension will be subject to 40% inheritance tax. So when we sell his house that he has stayed in for 60 years, all of this (around £500k) will have to be handed over as tax. I defy anyone to not feel sick about this.

Edited

Inheritance tax will likely be due on my father's estate when he dies, unless a lot gets eaten up in care costs. I'm not sure why that should make me feel sick?

RedTagAlan · 19/02/2026 12:40

HamToasties · 19/02/2026 12:24

It’s not a question of it being “enough” - it’s more that I want the inheritance that we (and generations before us) worked so hard for, to pass onto our family and not the government.

That's democracy surely ?

The Tories had 14 years to prove their economic model worked, to create enough millionaires that the Labour manifesto would not get most votes. They failed.

And if we add the cuts the tories made, effectively having the country run on the never never, there has to come a point where the lack of investment is reversed.

Think of it this way. Any extra tax paid can go towards our underfunded defense. Defense that will allow future generations to keep the bulk of their inheritance.

Is it not fair that those with most to lose should pay a bit more towards the defense of what they have already ? Those 2 aircraft carriers are not cheap. And we can barely use them because of Tory cuts.

HamToasties · 19/02/2026 12:45

thedogdaysareover51 · 19/02/2026 12:31

@HamToasties Yes from 2027-it’s the inheritance tax on my father in law’s pension that will affect us when he passes away (not that I’m hoping for this-we are very close). This is a change under Labour and his pension will be subject to 40% inheritance tax. So when we sell his house that he has stayed in for 60 years, all of this (around £500k) will have to be handed over as tax. I defy anyone to not feel sick about this.

Edited

Oh yes, we are in a similar position with DF private pension. It’s frustrating.

HamToasties · 19/02/2026 13:02

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 19/02/2026 12:36

It's at least understandable why someone with this level of wealth and greed might choose to vote for Reform. There is at least a logic to it.

It is much less understandable as to why vast swathes of ordinary people seem to think that Reform is going to do anything for them. Turkeys voting for Christmas. It's really difficult to watch.

But I suppose Brexit has already proved to us that people can quite easily be manipulated to vote for acts of self harm, so I guess we shouldn't be surprised really.

It is as understandable in the same way as it understandable how someone with children who has never worked but claims unemployment benefits will vote for Labour, who will increase the money going into their pocket.

The unemployed person and the “wealthy greedy” person you describe both have the same entitlement to vote, but they will each vote for the party that benefits them the most. This is always the way it has been in politics. Why would one be selfish and not the other purely because one has millions and the other doesn’t? It’s a very strange way of thinking but such is the way of the left.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 19/02/2026 13:18

HamToasties · 19/02/2026 13:02

It is as understandable in the same way as it understandable how someone with children who has never worked but claims unemployment benefits will vote for Labour, who will increase the money going into their pocket.

The unemployed person and the “wealthy greedy” person you describe both have the same entitlement to vote, but they will each vote for the party that benefits them the most. This is always the way it has been in politics. Why would one be selfish and not the other purely because one has millions and the other doesn’t? It’s a very strange way of thinking but such is the way of the left.

Not at all, I agree with you. There are people who vote for their own self interest on either side of the political spectrum. It isn't how I approach politics personally, but I can at least understand the logic behind those choices.

My point was rather that I can't really understand the vast swathes of ordinary people who are planning to vote for Reform despite the fact that they will be shafted by them. Are they making an active choice so that the ultra-rich can benefit at their expense?

HamToasties · 19/02/2026 13:38

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 19/02/2026 13:18

Not at all, I agree with you. There are people who vote for their own self interest on either side of the political spectrum. It isn't how I approach politics personally, but I can at least understand the logic behind those choices.

My point was rather that I can't really understand the vast swathes of ordinary people who are planning to vote for Reform despite the fact that they will be shafted by them. Are they making an active choice so that the ultra-rich can benefit at their expense?

I think the current Labour government have disappointed many and the failure of both Labour and Conservative parties to address the issues that people are seeing around them (eg immigration, crime) for years on end has led to swathes looking for an alternative. I can’t pretend I have ever voted for Labour (I haven’t) but under the previous Labour government in 1997 - 2010, I enjoyed very low interest rates on my mortgage repayments! So although I didn’t align with their policies, I wasn’t overy bothered about them being in power. I do think when Labour voters are switching to Reform, Labour has a huge problem. Not because I believe for a minute that Reform are “far right” but because I accept their views and policies are more aligned with the right than the left / centre left.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 19/02/2026 13:43

HamToasties · 19/02/2026 13:38

I think the current Labour government have disappointed many and the failure of both Labour and Conservative parties to address the issues that people are seeing around them (eg immigration, crime) for years on end has led to swathes looking for an alternative. I can’t pretend I have ever voted for Labour (I haven’t) but under the previous Labour government in 1997 - 2010, I enjoyed very low interest rates on my mortgage repayments! So although I didn’t align with their policies, I wasn’t overy bothered about them being in power. I do think when Labour voters are switching to Reform, Labour has a huge problem. Not because I believe for a minute that Reform are “far right” but because I accept their views and policies are more aligned with the right than the left / centre left.

Of course Labour will have a problem if their voters switch to Reform.

But the voters themselves will find that they have an even bigger problem if Reform actually wins power.

HamToasties · 19/02/2026 13:55

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 19/02/2026 13:43

Of course Labour will have a problem if their voters switch to Reform.

But the voters themselves will find that they have an even bigger problem if Reform actually wins power.

That is pure speculation, though. We have no idea as Reform have never been in power before. This is refreshing to many who are fed up with the usual two-horse political race. Their policies clearly align with a lot of people, hence the support for them (outside MN anyway!) has surged. I don’t know if they’re the answer but I have lost faith in the Conservatives and Restore are a bit too knee jerk for me, so Reform is where I am.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 19/02/2026 13:58

HamToasties · 19/02/2026 13:55

That is pure speculation, though. We have no idea as Reform have never been in power before. This is refreshing to many who are fed up with the usual two-horse political race. Their policies clearly align with a lot of people, hence the support for them (outside MN anyway!) has surged. I don’t know if they’re the answer but I have lost faith in the Conservatives and Restore are a bit too knee jerk for me, so Reform is where I am.

Well, if you're a wealthy, white man, then you'll probably do well under them.

If not, then I wish the very best of luck to you.

whereisitnow · 19/02/2026 15:35

The idea that Reform even want to help anyone other then themselves is a joke.

Labraradabrador · 19/02/2026 23:02

Turkeys voting for Christmas is very much how I would describe Labour voters. Workers are the ones left shouldering a worse economic environment and higher tax obligations to pay for party prerogatives.

i disagree with a significant portion of reform, but I would vote for them if it gets Labour out. I suspect many many working people feel the same way- certainly the self employed trades, farmers and hospitality industry workers that are the backbone of my local community do.

FloralSpray · 20/02/2026 10:29

Follow the Money
Green Party to win 4/9
Reform " 3/1
Labour " 9/2
The others 200/1 or more.

Wolverine23 · 21/02/2026 16:14

Somemum1 · 27/01/2026 14:16

I used to vote Green / Libdem / Labour, but I will be voting Reform at the council elections in May, and at the next General Election, for the following reasons:

  1. I am not racist, I am very happy to welcome anyone of any colour, race or religion who wants to help our country thrive and accept our values. BUT I believe that many illegal immigrants and some legal ones despise Western values, come here to exploit our generosity, and want to change our country to respect their own views. As women we are kind and tend to want to help everyone, but we have been taken advantage of, with no respect in return.

  2. The country is broke. We need to change taxes and welfare to incentivise businesses, get people working and attract investment and talent.

  3. We need to stop spending fortunes on housing, welfare, legal aid, health, policing and prison for people who should not be in this country and don't need to be - I am happy to help genuine asylum seekers, but many of those granted Leave to Remain go back to visit their supposedly dangerous countries.

  4. We need to tackle crime, particularly against women and girls. Sexual violence has risen dramatically, and unfortunately I think this is due to cultural differences between Britain and some of the countries that immigrants come from. Forgive me for wanting our children to be safe.

It won't be easy, but Reform's policies are to:
End illegal immigration, deport illegal immigrants, increase policing, reward working and productivity, scrap net zero to lower fuel costs for businesses and people, support farmers and manufacturing, rebuild our armed forces, encourage families
All of which I agree with.
(I used to back net zero, and I still care deeply for the environment, but I feel we have made poor choices too quickly, handicapping our economy, when our country's impact on global warming is very low. Decisions such as reducing UK steel production then importing it worsen global emissions, and damage our economy)

In addition, I can't vote for any other party, because:

Labour is increasing the welfare state and increasing tax, driving wealthy investors and talent overseas. This stifles economic growth.
Mostly Labour councils covered up the grooming gangs.

Conservatives are now saying everything they promised and should have done in their last 14 years in power. No one can trust them now

Greens are now nothing to do with the environment. They have formed a coalition between Socialists and Islamists. The last time that alliance took over a country together, Iran, it resulted in Socialists being massacred and hardline Islam taking over. Socialism sounds good in theory, but has never been good for the people in practice.

Libdems - want same high tax, high welfare policies as Labour, resulting in low growth economy. Won't stop immigration

Your Party - as per Greens but more extreme on Socialism and Islamism

Would be very interested to hear different opinions on the above!

I’m hoping the aliens come and take me away if reform get in.

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