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Agree Bookstart is great - but makes me angry how stingy things have become

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Armo24 · 04/12/2025 23:01

Came across this sweet and quietly political piece about Bookstart and remembered how it used to be more generous than it is now even. Is it a sign of how we just come to expect less over the years? Isn't that quite sad?

What baby books taught me about the British state

What baby books taught me about the British state

The Bookstart scheme, which gives books to newborns, is a remnant from a more beneficent political era

https://www.newstatesman.com/politics/society/2025/12/what-baby-books-taught-me-about-the-british-state

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SushiForMe · 05/12/2025 10:04

I’d rather the money was spent to keep libraries open. Unlimited books for free, for all ages. Maybe one of the health visitor appts could cover quickly how to apply for a library card for the local library.

Ddakji · 05/12/2025 10:07

MyOtherProfile · 05/12/2025 09:56

That would be lovely. Hard to implement though so in the meantime book start books are great.

I taught in a deprived area and we gave out the book start packs. They were literally the only books some of our children had at home.

Yes, but I dispute that owning a book is the key thing here. In our libraries kids can take out a huge number of books at a time. No fines. I appreciate some areas have had their library services cut (because no one was using them?).

Woulsnt it have been better to take groups down to the library? Shown them how it works, how easy it is and what a wealth of books there are?

Marshmallow4545 · 05/12/2025 10:19

MaggieBsBoat · 05/12/2025 06:41

I remember chatting with my HV when having my last 10 years ago. For me the problem is that they are giving them to everyone it’s not needs based and in times when money is tight it is potentially throwing away money. For m youngest children I got these books that a) I already had and b) as library users our kids didn’t need to be given books. I don’t know how it would be worked out but surely giving these things, and bigger and better, to people eligible for sure start or whatever makes most sense. I mean I’ve received 3 copies of the gruffalo and we already had one purchased ourselves! That’s absurd.

I agree with this.

Realistically giving books to my children wasn't a good use of public resources. We have plenty of books at home and use libraries. The books that were gifted often weren't to the children's taste and it all just seemed a bit wasteful. This is why I think intervention needs to be targeted and more considered.

stargirl1701 · 05/12/2025 10:24

Scotland is still giving lots of books.

Bookbug Baby Bag - 3 books
Bookbug Toddler Bag - 3 books
Bookbug Explorer Bag - 3 books
Bookbug P1 Bag - 3 books
Read, Write, Count P2 Bag - 2 books
Read, Write, Count P3 Bag - 2 books

In addition to that, there are the £1 WBD book tokens every year from P1 to S2.

That’s 25 books for a child between birth and S2 provided by the state/charity.

JollyHostess101 · 05/12/2025 10:31

West Sussex where I am give every child a library card when they get registered! Granted we’re lucky as we’ve not closed any libraries (long may that continue) but some kids come on a class visit in reception with school without ever having stepped foot in a library before!

stargirl1701 · 05/12/2025 10:34

God, I can’t count. 😳

Ddakji · 05/12/2025 10:38

stargirl1701 · 05/12/2025 10:24

Scotland is still giving lots of books.

Bookbug Baby Bag - 3 books
Bookbug Toddler Bag - 3 books
Bookbug Explorer Bag - 3 books
Bookbug P1 Bag - 3 books
Read, Write, Count P2 Bag - 2 books
Read, Write, Count P3 Bag - 2 books

In addition to that, there are the £1 WBD book tokens every year from P1 to S2.

That’s 25 books for a child between birth and S2 provided by the state/charity.

In my local library a child could borrow that number of books in a month (I think they can have 15 books out at a time).

Libraries are a much, much better way to foster reading, both financial and for quantity.

PlazaAthenee · 05/12/2025 10:38

We still have the Bookstart Tote from the mid 00's. IIRC we had books at birth / 6 weeks and another set at a year. I think I still have one with mirrors in it.

Cameron and Osborne trashed so many things for the kids born after 2010. Our library hours were slashed a few years ago and one library was closed completely.

Ithinkofawittyusernamethenforgetit · 05/12/2025 10:41

Carri79 · 05/12/2025 07:31

So I had my first child in 1998 and my youngest last year. Yes the early 2000s were awash with money for the whole country and lots of perks for families but that was only a phase. I do feel a bit sorry for people who grew up during that time as their concept of deprivation is completely skewed. I can tell you the perks and support available to families now is still way more than it was in the 1990s, even just the provision of childcare etc is much more than it was and I say that as someone who had to reserve a nursery place for my younger when I was 12 weeks pregnant and who hasn’t been able to get my primary aged children in the afterschool club.

Yes mine were born between 1996 and 2001 and no access to Sure Start, no free books, no child trust money - I think a lot of people think things were always better! More importantly, there was such a lack of childcare. I put my eldest’s name down for the local council-run group, told my new neighbour when she moved in long after, her child got offered a choice of up to 5 mornings, I got offered two set mornings because (I didn’t realise) places were allocated by date of birth and hers was older than mine! Second child got set 2 mornings, third was on the waiting list - number 60 and they took 30 each year so no chance! We also had to clean the nursery including mopping and toilets, twice per term (after the session, trying to watch toddler and newborn). Breastfeeding support was non-existent, also had to be done in toilets or rooms of shame 😂. But I knew nothing else, so jogged along. Partly I’d moved to a new area so didn’t have any support. This was all pre-internet, but I didn’t read any of those baby books. I do remember buying Mother & Baby magazine though - looked forward to that!

BarnacleBeasley · 05/12/2025 11:02

We are in Scotland and get the Bookbug bags, and they're brilliant. I know someone who is on the selection panel for the books, and you don't end up with duplicates because they change them each year. The books they choose are always really high quality and well suited to the age group, because they're chosen by a panel of experts in children's literacy. Ideally it's not an either/or with libraries, which are also great - the book bags encourage DC to engage with books, and the libraries offer Bookbug sessions and feature the stories, so you will potentially get DC going to libraries because of the Bookbug scheme. Also, library funding is a much bigger issue but children's publishers will either be donating or heavily subsidising the books provided for the Bookbug bags, because they want their titles and authors to be well known, and they want to boost their reputation for social responsibility too.

TheNightingalesStarling · 05/12/2025 11:05

Doesn't Scotland have Baby boxes as well?

u3ername · 05/12/2025 11:17

Isn’t the obvious answer that all the money goes to pay a larger number of people’s regular benefit payments and there’s not enough for one-off support initiatives for regular families with newborns?

MyOtherProfile · 05/12/2025 12:09

Ddakji · 05/12/2025 10:07

Yes, but I dispute that owning a book is the key thing here. In our libraries kids can take out a huge number of books at a time. No fines. I appreciate some areas have had their library services cut (because no one was using them?).

Woulsnt it have been better to take groups down to the library? Shown them how it works, how easy it is and what a wealth of books there are?

Who is going to take groups down to the library?

I'm a huge library fan, and I do recognise that children in many schools have a school library slot where they take books from, but sending home a couple of book start books is lovely and I have known a number of children where this has been such a positive thing for them.

It doesn't have to be one or the other but I don't know who would be taking groups to the library, especially in early years. Unless it's a school setting and a school library.

Mischance · 05/12/2025 12:11

SushiForMe · 05/12/2025 10:04

I’d rather the money was spent to keep libraries open. Unlimited books for free, for all ages. Maybe one of the health visitor appts could cover quickly how to apply for a library card for the local library.

Sadly not all parents would bother to go to a library. The scheme is intended to help children in this situation so they have some of the same chances in life.

Ddakji · 05/12/2025 13:48

MyOtherProfile · 05/12/2025 12:09

Who is going to take groups down to the library?

I'm a huge library fan, and I do recognise that children in many schools have a school library slot where they take books from, but sending home a couple of book start books is lovely and I have known a number of children where this has been such a positive thing for them.

It doesn't have to be one or the other but I don't know who would be taking groups to the library, especially in early years. Unless it's a school setting and a school library.

I don’t know. Booktrust presumably raises the money to buy these books - maybe they could use the money to help with this. Because it’s a much better long-term solution, given the libraries are there, stocked with books that are free to borrow.

JustGoClickLikeALightSwitch · 05/12/2025 14:23

Roundaboot · 05/12/2025 10:01

Absolutely it would but that's getting harder to do with all the library closures. Our local library where I used to take DS (now 18) for Rhyme Time, HV checks and to look at books is now only open one full day a week. It's completely closed on Mondays and Wednesdays. It makes it much harder for parents, especially when they are working, to access

This. Libraries, like a lot else, have been decimated.

There are now pilot BookBanks in some food banks. Which is a brilliant initiative but a bit of an indictment too.

Ddakji · 05/12/2025 14:31

JustGoClickLikeALightSwitch · 05/12/2025 14:23

This. Libraries, like a lot else, have been decimated.

There are now pilot BookBanks in some food banks. Which is a brilliant initiative but a bit of an indictment too.

Depends on the area - my borough is fantastic at libraries, has refurbished or opened new libraries and hasn’t closed any.

But if there’s less demand for libraries, they’ll close. Which is why getting children to become lifelong library users is a good thing, alongside not encouraging people without much money to buy books when they can borrow them for nothing.

(Oh, and if this is any incentive - authors (average annual salary - about £7,000) do get money from library borrowing whereas they don’t from secondhand sales.)

OriginalUsername2 · 05/12/2025 16:12

Staybymw · 05/12/2025 06:12

When I had my first baby back in 2009, I got a baby book from the GP. Thick book from pregnancy up until newborn stage. I read it back to front. I was a teen mum and it really helped me.

Gave birth last year and none of that stuff exists anymore. Everything is online they said But it is not the same

Same here! That book was my bible, I really wanted to get everything right to counteract all the judgement.

Matildatoldsuchdreadfullies · 05/12/2025 16:21

There are a thousand and one places to get cheap or free books. Children from non-reading families didn't get the Bookstart books read to them. They were simply chucked or given to the local charity shops.

A school I used to work at had a book exchange - parents could drop off books, and pick up books. Once a term every class would be taken to it and the children would choose a book. Cheaper, more environmentally friendly, and better for the children who actually got to choose their books.

Matildatoldsuchdreadfullies · 05/12/2025 16:22

And, unfortunately, we did have parents who complained about us sending home rubbish with the children.

Oblahdeeoblahdoe · 05/12/2025 16:36

HopSpringsEternal · 05/12/2025 06:19

God they really fucked up the world since 2012. It is depressing. David Cameron has so much to answer for. Austerity and Brexit have the rise of populalism is horrible to see.

I've been saying this for years. However, the Tories campaigned on austerity and the stupid population voted them in!

MaggieBsBoat · 05/12/2025 16:58

Carri79 · 05/12/2025 07:40

We’ve enjoyed and used the books we’ve received and are not eligible for any benefits, the problem in this country is that everyone is divided into on benefits and perceived as poor and all the help and perks in the world thrown at them or not on benefits and so must be rich. The reality is that some kids are swamped with gifts from friends and family and parents who are quite well off and other families are just about managing and don’t have family and friends who can afford to spoil their children. It really pisses me off when people whose children are spoilt say please just target these things to people on benefits, we don’t need our child benefit etc. I have been on benefits and I sure as hell wouldn’t want to be at the moment as. So much understandable resentment at everything only being targeted at people on benefits, I was actually much better off on benefits!!

wow. Well when I had my first in 1997 and I was living on £70 a week I was definitely not better off. Most people on benefits are not better off. Not sure how that works for you. Maybe you’re in a really shit job and need to change! When I was on benefits it encouraged me to sort myself out so that I wouldn’t need to stay on benefits.

Carri79 · 05/12/2025 23:31

MaggieBsBoat · 05/12/2025 16:58

wow. Well when I had my first in 1997 and I was living on £70 a week I was definitely not better off. Most people on benefits are not better off. Not sure how that works for you. Maybe you’re in a really shit job and need to change! When I was on benefits it encouraged me to sort myself out so that I wouldn’t need to stay on benefits.

Yes I had my first in 1998 and on about the same and it was very hard and my other post does say that in the 1990s things were completely different to the 2000s, between 1998-2001 things changed beyond belief, I felt like a millionaire on tax credits in comparison and
there was even help towards childcare for the first time. Many years later I found myself a single mother again and I was much better off than I’d been with my ex. Now I’m married, the drop in my disposable income when we moved in together was enormous as all my top up benefits stopped of course , we obviously share all our income now but by the time my DH has paid maintenance, we’ve paid the mortgage on our house that has had to be big enough for all our children etc and we’re not eligible for any UC as of course they don’t include the fact we have shared care for DSC or are paying a significant amount in maintenance into any calculation. We are far worse off than I would be on benefits on my own or if we had primary residence for DSC. BTW we are both in good jobs thank you very much, myself a registered health care professional and I work the same part time hours as I did when I was on benefits previously

Herbisaurous · 06/12/2025 07:54

Armo24 · 05/12/2025 09:46

Wow I didn't know about the baby book - that sounds so helpful, I could've done with that! I don't remember getting even any leaflets or anything when I had my first last year. Seems like it'd be quite an obvious and easy thing to keep that would more than pay for itself. Sad to hear the massive change since 2009 - not a long period of time in the grand scheme of things!

Im not asking this with an arsey tone or anything, just genuine curiosity. But why would you sit back and wait to be given a book or leaflets? If you felt unknowledgeable or unprepared (has there ever been a first time mum who doesn't feel that way?!), did you not proactively seek out information - buy a book, or borrow one from a friend, or a library?

MyOtherProfile · 06/12/2025 10:03

Ddakji · 05/12/2025 13:48

I don’t know. Booktrust presumably raises the money to buy these books - maybe they could use the money to help with this. Because it’s a much better long-term solution, given the libraries are there, stocked with books that are free to borrow.

I think the money needed would be quite different. As would ensuring take up unless it became part of a school day, which raises all kinds of other issues, plus schools have their own libraries.