I'm someone who naturally enjoys discussing 'deep' topics. I find a lot of chit chat very innane (I'm neurodiverse, so that doesn't help), and as a result, I find it very hard to make true friends. I get along with everyone tbh, but I really need friends who share the same interests and who are on the same intellectual wavelength as me. However, I don't think anyone is better than anyone else, just because someone likes things that society has deemed as intellectual.
I'm also more than happy to discuss different viewpoints (I love a debate!), and will treat them with curiosity and kindness, but I'm also never going to be besties with a Reformer, for example. I think people have lost the art of nuance though. I'd never turn around and call all Reformers racist scum like some on the left do (and I consider myself a die hard socialist!), because it's far more complex than that. A lot of anti immigration rhetoric is tied deeply in class struggles.
I love reading and writing poetry, watching plays, and learning just for the sake of learning. But, I'm also not above watching trash like MAFS and Love Island, lol. Most people like a mix of topics.
I think unfortunately the UK has always had, and continues to have, a deeply entrenched class system. Historically, things like opera excluded the working classes and was a spectacle for the wealthy elite. In modern times, going to see a musical is predominantly a middle class activity as it's expensive. Also, working class people traditionally worked very long shifts before workplace laws came to be. All of that means things that we now think of as cultured are treated with suspicion by the working class. I'm from a very working class background, and my dad (from a mining family) is very much of the opinion that art is pointless, Athens is a bunch of old rocks, and avocados are rubbish.
Everyone has different interests ofc, but 'culture' will always continue to be predominantly for the middle classes whilst we live under such a strict social hierarchy where the wealthier you are, the better education you typically have access too. It's also hard to take things like art and theatre seriously when you're busy trying to scrape enough money together to pay your bills. And people can say museums are free until they're blue in the face, but not everyone has transport, can afford much public transport, lives near a city with decent museums, or even has a good enough standard of reading to truly understand what they're looking up. It's hard to enjoy something if you don't have the educational background to truly digest it.
The ability to put a lot of thought into intellectual or cultural pursuits is an immense privilege, and it's unreasonable to suggest otherwise imo. Also, intelligence and education are very different things. There will be swathes of working class people who are naturally very intelligent, but unfortunately face cultural and monetary barriers to accessing education on some topics.
I also do think it's classism to see some pursuits as cultural and intelligent, and some as trashy. Opera and theatre are fun, but ultimately a pointless form of entertainment. So is football. But one is seen as for smart people because the middle classes say so 🤷