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Legislation to ban 1st Cousin Marriage

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VisitationRights · 09/12/2024 18:41

Just saw this, Richard Holden has introduced legislation to ban 1st cousin marriage:
https://x.com/RicHolden/status/1865770931588612234

I think it is about time but wondering if the proposed legislation is likely to be supported or not.

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https://x.com/RicHolden/status/1865770931588612234

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SheilaFentiman · 12/12/2024 08:03

Which seems strange when considering it just from a monetary perspective then it would save the NHS millions in addition to inflicting horrific disorder and early death on innocent babies and children!

How will it save the NHS millions?

In the event that first cousins are marrying and having children, they have the option to have children without getting married, to marry in a country without the ban or to have a non-official marriage here.

I don’t think it’s a good idea to procreate with a first cousin, but folks need to be realistic about possibilities if they are claiming such things.

1dayatatime · 12/12/2024 08:31

@SheilaFentiman

"I don’t think it’s a good idea to procreate with a first cousin, but folks need to be realistic about possibilities if they are claiming such things."

By changing the laws on incest to include first cousins.

Of course they could lie about being first cousins or get married abroad etc etc but the same argument could be used for siblings getting married abroad etc etc.

It seems insane that first cousins can marry and have children whilst step brothers and sisters cannot if they have previously lived together whilst under the age of 18.

VisitationRights · 12/12/2024 08:38

That Dispatches programme, When Cousins Marry, was made in 2010 and there is still this political fear of being labelled racist for calling out the harm caused by inbreeding.

The second reading of the bill is in January; I think Labour Maps especially need to hear from constituents and be told they need to support the ban.

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SheilaFentiman · 12/12/2024 08:41

but the same argument could be used for siblings getting married abroad etc etc.

Are there many countries that allow sibling marriage?

By changing the laws on incest to include first cousins.

I haven’t googled, but have there been a lot of prosecutions under this law as it stands?

Regarding incest - the genetic issue is if first cousins procreate - it is of course perfectly possible to have sex without it leading to babies, or for same sex first cousins to be in a relationship. Assume you would make all those illegal?

Bromptotoo · 12/12/2024 08:46

@Ludovico It's not true that a man in a polygamous marriage can claim for more than one wife.

SheilaFentiman · 12/12/2024 08:51

Quick google, looks like someone sent the same FOI request in jan 2024 to several police forces about incest charges in the last 10 years. For Manchester (GMP) it was zero and for Dyfed-Powys it was 2, both in 2018x with the same “perp” in both crimes (58 and 18 plus 58 and 35 were the ages, from which I guess incest was added to a charge of interfamily abuse rather than being standalone, eg an man and his daughter and granddaughter)

shittestusernameever · 12/12/2024 09:08

I was a carer at a day centre in the northwest, it's clearly a problem and needs sorting now. I lasted 6 months.

Not only is it cruel to the babies being born into these marriages, it's an unfair burden to the taxpayer.

One family had 3 late teen kids born with disabilities due to interbreeding and it's not right.

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 12/12/2024 09:18

CraftyNavySeal · 09/12/2024 20:20

He can’t anyway.

The state can only control civil marriage. It can’t control religious marriages for the same reason it can’t stop me having a Druid perform a hand fasting ceremony with me, my cat and 3 boyfriends.

The only way to make it illegal would be amending the incest law to include cousins.

Very good point ... that is what they should do.

Hoppinggreen · 12/12/2024 09:23

I have a friend who had an arranged marriage with her cousin, her parents were also cousins and his parents were cousins (although I think they were using the term to mean related more than anything else). She had 2 severaly disabled children and acknowledged that the reason was genetics, she had wanted to stop having children after the first one but was pressured to continue and her fears dismissed.She was actually blamed and was told there must be something wrong with her.
She eventually left her H and got divorced and married someone else, they had a child who was perfectly healthy.
Cousin or other relation marriage is a real issue in the area where I live but its difficult to talk about it, I believe that there are now some people within the communities where its an issue who are starting to try and raise awareness and I think that amongst the younger generations its not as accepted.

SheilaFentiman · 12/12/2024 09:30

Max penalty is 7 years imprisonment.

sexualviolence.idas.org.uk/about-sexual-violence-and-abuse/what-is-incest/

DarkAndTwisties · 12/12/2024 09:31

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 12/12/2024 00:00

I think the ban is stupid. It takes centuries of 1st cousins marrying each other to have any noticeable impact. It is clearly being proposed just to target minority British groups.

The genetic risk of one couple being 1st cousins to their children only increases chance of congenital defects by 1-2% compared to unrelated couples. (the chance of first cousins having children with a birth defect is 4-7%, vs. 3-4% for a non-consanguineous couple) Having a baby at 40 instead of 25 causes a much higher increase in risk,(eg 1,250% increase in risk for Downs), are we going to ban geriatric pregnancy for any woman over age 39? I mean if this is really based in health concerns of children shouldn’t we address the higher risks of geriatric pregnancies?

Besides, as many married couples are child free as have children. Why should a law on marriage be passed on the assumption you will definitely have biological children?

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I mean if this is really based in health concerns of children shouldn’t we address the higher risks of geriatric pregnancies?

I agree with the point you're making here.

We don't ban people with genetic illnesses from having children on the grounds that it's cruel to the child eg if you have the Huntington's gene, there is a 50% chance your child will inherit the gene, and if they do, a 100% chance they will develop Huntington's - a fatal and incurable disease. But we (rightly imo) do not ban people from having children for this reason.

bentneckwine1 · 12/12/2024 10:10

I have have Huntington's Disease - you can have children by IVF.

My cousin has two children born by IVF who are not at risk.

SpikyHatePotato · 12/12/2024 10:57

I think that multiple generations of cousin marriage causes a higher incidence of genetic disease. Take the Hapsburgs, the Romanovs, and all of the European royal families.

One incidence of first cousin marriage/ children in a family is not a problem, health-wise, and PP have pointed out statistics vs children born to women over 40. The children of one first cousin marriage are not automatically destined to suffer genetic or other diseases, as some posters on this thread seem to be saying.

My father's parents were cousins. My father and his brother are normal healthy individuals, and all of their children are likewise healthy.

I don't see how legislation could protect from multiple generation first cousin marriage without unnecessarily penalising one- off occurrences

C8H10N4O2 · 12/12/2024 11:37

bentneckwine1 · 12/12/2024 10:10

I have have Huntington's Disease - you can have children by IVF.

My cousin has two children born by IVF who are not at risk.

Yes embryo screening is an interesting development for families with an inherited condition in the family. I know a family who used similar due to a predisposition to muscular dystrophy.

Cousin marriage is only an issue if its repeated across generations and "in breeding" used to be common in more isolated communities of all types (hence "normal for Norfolk" type phrases). As per PP - not all marriages plan children and age can be a bigger factor than cousin status in terms of genetic risk.

To me it would make more sense if all couples had genetic screening and counselling before marriage to understand any risks if they choose to have children. This would also alert families where the common genetic condition arises as a shock. Education and genetic counselling could be more effective than bans which could be circumvented and which provide no actual education.

woffley · 12/12/2024 12:56

Regarding incest - the genetic issue is if first cousins procreate - it is of course perfectly possible to have sex without it leading to babies, or for same sex first cousins to be in a relationship. Assume you would make all those illegal?

We already have laws against incest. It's still against the law to have sex with a sibling even if there is no child.

They have the option to have children without getting married
They wouldn't if it was incest.

It's not true that a man in a polygamous marriage can claim for more than one wife.
Unless they have changed the law it is true. I worked in DWP for many years. Second and subsequent wives were administratively treated as "dependant children" for benefit purposes. This may be out of date now but I certainly saw it frequently.

DogInATent · 12/12/2024 12:58

Zonder · 09/12/2024 19:38

I read the other thread but didn't know there was proposed legislation. I think this is a good move but could be an issue for some communities.

Is that why the farming community were parking their tractors in Whitehall this week?

SheilaFentiman · 12/12/2024 13:13

woffley · 12/12/2024 12:56

Regarding incest - the genetic issue is if first cousins procreate - it is of course perfectly possible to have sex without it leading to babies, or for same sex first cousins to be in a relationship. Assume you would make all those illegal?

We already have laws against incest. It's still against the law to have sex with a sibling even if there is no child.

They have the option to have children without getting married
They wouldn't if it was incest.

It's not true that a man in a polygamous marriage can claim for more than one wife.
Unless they have changed the law it is true. I worked in DWP for many years. Second and subsequent wives were administratively treated as "dependant children" for benefit purposes. This may be out of date now but I certainly saw it frequently.

Then your problem (and I note you are not the person I quoted, but it is of course a free forum) is with first cousins having sex at all rather than only the potential genetic consequences for any offspring. Is that correct?

DogInATent · 12/12/2024 13:32

SheilaFentiman · 12/12/2024 13:13

Then your problem (and I note you are not the person I quoted, but it is of course a free forum) is with first cousins having sex at all rather than only the potential genetic consequences for any offspring. Is that correct?

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A law that says it's legal for X & Y to have sex but illegal to have children is totally impractical. You cannot meaningfully enforce the illegal children bit.

woffley · 12/12/2024 13:52

SheilaFentiman · 12/12/2024 13:13

Then your problem (and I note you are not the person I quoted, but it is of course a free forum) is with first cousins having sex at all rather than only the potential genetic consequences for any offspring. Is that correct?

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That's a bizarre take on this. Does that mean you have no problem with incest in general providing there are no offspring?
It's a means to an end. While incest in most cultures is socially taboo the reasons for that are because of the potential impact on progeny.

YYURYYUCICYYUR4ME · 12/12/2024 14:00

Having worked in a school, in Reading, with a unit for those with disabilities, the majority of the children in the unit were from close family / cousin marriages. I'd not wish some of the disabilities on any child and I have no idea what percentage of children this degree of close genetic marriage affects, but even one child is too many imo.

SheilaFentiman · 12/12/2024 15:24

@woffley

Me asking you to clarify your position does not imply anything about my position. (That’s a general point about how discussions work, FYI.)

There are many posters on this thread who are using the genetics of potential children as the basis for their objection. Hence me asking the question.

FWIW, since you have now asked me, I do not agree with incest between a brother and sister, or other close family members as per the current law, whether children are a result or not.

Balticsea · 12/12/2024 15:42

Whilst visiting a children's hospital, I met a girl aged 16 who had an inherited lung disease, her sister also had this and was awaiting a heart and lung transplant. Her parents were cousins. I am a cystic fibrosis carrier and my cousins are also carriers. One strong reason that cousins cannot marry.

Huffalumps · 12/12/2024 16:08

The fact most uninitiated people of this country already thought cousin relationships and marriage was illegal reveals our society's views. It's incest. It's taboo.

Argue it all around the houses. Even if there were no inherited genetic issues, the UK populace considers 1st cousin marriage as taboo as parent-child and sibling relationships.

The issue of the communities which widely practice this type of incest is a separate matter. I personally think that within family marriage reveals how those communities see outsiders i.e. white British culture. It reveals a lack of desire to integrate into the wider community. As such there is concern about how the practice of incest might affect community relations into the future. Imagine the determination to continue a practice that your adopted culture views as taboo? Would you emigrate to Iran and refuse to veil in public? Of course not. Total disrespect and disregard for your adopted fellow countryfolk.

I do find it hopeful however that younger generations of incestuous communities are going off the idea. Let it die a death and good riddance.

VisitationRights · 12/12/2024 18:46

It is possible to be against first cousin marriage for both the moral reasons, it is taboo to marry a close blood relative, and for the harm it causes from a medical pov.

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