Roseformeplease, just picking up some of your points:
"1. If Salmond succeeds (and I don't feel he will) there will be a huge backlash in rUK. He is characterising rUK as "the English" and "the Tories" "
Yes, for me and for a lot of people in Scotland, a big attraction is not having Tory governments. The Tories haven't won an election in Scotland since 1955 and they were a different party in a different country then. It's perfectly reasonable to want to get away from rule by a party that is a very minor one now here. But the clincher for many is how lame New Labour are. I started supporting independence in 1997 because I thought, if this is the best Labour government I can get in the UK, I'd rather we weren't in it any more.
As for "the English", I'm sorry, but I'd be grateful if you could point out to me anywhere he's talked in those sorts of terms. Is it possible you're ascribing views to him because you disagree with him?
"This will be divisive."
I'm not sure it could be more divisive than Scotland getting the policies of parties it didn't vote for. I think that's the biggest source of division at the moment.
"Salmond will have told us to Fuck Off and the crowing will be unbearable."
I think this is extremely unfair and not based on anything other than your feelings. Seriously, please quote me things he has said that make you feel this way.
Both sides dread the crowing of the other if they lose. But reasonable people like us need to remember that there will be a 19th of September.
"His white paper tells me that I will be considered Scottish on Independence Day."
It doesn't. It says you'll have the choice.
"I don't want to live in a Nationalist state"
You already do. Scotland is certainly no more nationalistic than the UK.
"How many others will leave too?"
And how many will come? A lot of left-leaning people in England have been talking about moving to Scotland if it were independent. I think it'd be very attractive to many.
"The rest of us are a bit scared of the Nats and so are just keeping quiet."
As what you would probably describe as a "Nat", I'm horrified you feel that way. I know plenty of English people voting Yes. My closest friend, godfather to my children, is voting no and we talk about this stuff a lot. I think if you actually engaged with people on the Yes side you'd be pleasantly relieved.
To be scared of people in favour of independence is pretty silly.
"tell him to fuck off with a bit fat X in the No box."
"Him? By "him" I assume you mean Alex Salmond?
There's a lot more than him in favour of independence. Billy Bragg. Sir George Mathewson. Denis Canavan. Lesley Riddoch. Ruth Wishart. Alan Cumming. Brian Cox. Do you hate these people? Do you fear them?