"so it is more a case of having a long-term strategy where people today accept that they will need to downsize when their families leave home, and that expectation gradually becomes the norm - people would expect it and can plan for it."
In which case, you would support a new law that people who own their own home, who have paid off their mortgage, should have to sell that property and buy a smaller one, regardless of whether they have care needs which require payment, yes?
Because, if the issue is that people shouldn't be able to live in a home too big for their needs, it shouldn't matter whether that home is LA owned or Privately owned.
If, however, it is yet another argument based on devaluing people who don't have the privilege of opportunity, then say it as it is.
Just like this new policy of the Universal Benefit.
PR statements: "Working is a good thing - all families should be working to support themselves, and people shouldn't think they can just stay at home for the children."
Reality: "Errr......of course if the main breadwinner of the home is able to earn enough to support the family, his/her partner may stay at home...it isn't so much about who is working as what they are earning."
So the privileged person who is earning £40,000 per year doing 9-5 Monday to Friday is worth more than the person on NMW doing 7-7 Monday-Friday and 9-1 on Saturday.
Nice 