Actually, we first got together nearly 12 years ago, while I was still training, we had a very on-off relationship for quite a few years partly due to the MIL not letting go and accepting he was an adult, partly due to his problems. He found it very difficult when my disability was diagnosed, as I had always been the 'carer', and suddenly I needed help from him, that at the time, he wasn't mature enough to give me. We have been back together now for over a year and a half, and our relationship is much better, he has matured, stood up to his mother, and become a much better partner and father.
How does it follow that someone who is reasonably literate could write a novel? Just because someone is literate, it does not mean they have the creative streak necessary to write fiction. I know I certainly haven't. It's just not in me, in fact for someone who did well at school, English literature was my weakest subject. If everyone was capable of being a best-selling author, ot wouldn't be so unusal to be one, would it? Which would then devalue that profession, leading to lower pay...vicious circle?
If I could find a well-paid, PT job in one of those areas, that I could get free training in, (my previous qualifications were very industry-specific), we would more than likely be in a very different situation. While I am not overtly pessimistic (although my posts on the subject of the cuts may give the impression that I am), I have come to accept after 7 years, the limitations that my disability has placed upon me. I call that realism.
In an ideal world, I would be retrained for free, in something that I could work PT in to supplement our income. I personally do not have learning difficulties, and class myself as fairly literate and able to retrain. The only constraint on my retraining is the lack of household income and the cost of training. But the country doesn't have money for people like me to retrain, the DWP/government doesn't care (labour or tory) what job we do, or for how little money, or how bad the conditions, so long as we are working. And that includes a lot of people like me that have a disability that is significant enough to impair their ability to work in a full time job, but not classed as significant enough to get any help from disability benefits.