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Can I put my disturbing dream here, any thoughts on it?

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piratecat · 30/05/2008 16:01

Dreamt last night that I was witness to fighting outside a bar, but the one thing everyone was concerned about was that all the beautiful colourful plates and ceramics had been smashed. Things like brightly coloured bowls, planters etc...

next, I came home, into my back garden and my ex dh was hastily covering up some knives, and basically told me he had killed 4 men and buried them in my garden. if was so real it was awful. he was checking with me that it didn't look as tho he had been digging. But it was obvious, lots of trampled grass, and piles of excess earth.
There was another man lying in the garen who ex dh said he'd deal with tomorrow (ie bury him. I went over to this man and realsie he was still alive, and I managed to get him out of the garden, and drag/carry him back to the town. By which time he had come round, and was none the wiser for his ordeal.

I was relieved, that he had no recollection of what my ex dh had done to him or the other men, and he went off. I ran away and hid.

I soon went back to my garden, and I thik my ex dh had gone to sleep in my house. He was there.

I wasn't scared of him, but was really concerned.

I woke soon after, and it is just one of those dreams, that stays with you.

sorry it was a bit horrible.

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Dragonbutter · 30/05/2008 16:06

i'll attempt an amateur dream analysis.

in RL, is your ex DH, dumping his issues/problems on you for you to deal with and you somehow find yourself covering for him but don't know why you should?

piratecat · 30/05/2008 16:11

ex dh walked out 3 yrs ago, and basically threw the towel in.

its always been poor old him in relation to faling relationship with dd(6) when its him who messes it up.

his gf is difficult.

I have been protecting dd for 3 yrs from his 'lack'

He has had alot of probs since he left, doesn't normally share them with me but soemtimes has told me stuff that he thinks i will like to hear/have an answwer too.

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piratecat · 01/06/2008 10:11

any more dream interpreters there to advise/clarify?

ex dh actually re marries in tw o weeks, and it has been looming for me.

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Dragonbutter · 01/06/2008 14:19

Maybe the dream was about all the dumping of problems he has, and you dreamt about it because it's (hopefully) coming to an end with his remarrying.
I am completely unqualified to analyse your dream however.
I'm sure there are some mnetters who are much better at this.
How do you feel about him remarrying?

clouded · 03/06/2008 19:56

Maybe the buried men are the three years of your separation from ex. You've had to kill off your feelings for him and bury them. But the still alive man stands for the feelings that won't lie down and be buried, but keep going partly by you 'forgetting' what has happened.

Not sure about the beautiful plates bowls, etc but maybe, broken dreams or the life you had with ex that is now in pieces, especially as he is remarrying.

What do I know!!!

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